um lets see. condoms + birth control. if u didn't use both and got knocked up, then that's all i have to say. u admitted to not using one, if not both, and had 6 miscarriages and a kid. being "young and stupid" is a bad excuse. like I said, i knew about condoms, birth control, STDs, and how babies were made in elementary school.
The 2 from my "young and stupid" days didn't last, so I guess that's a mute point.
I don't regret getting knocked up at all, not in the slightest. I regret the way things worked out with my ex and that my son doesn't have a father because of it... but he's got a wonderful mother, grandmother, grandfather, uncle, aunt, cousin, and a whole other host of family relatives on my side that adore him.
I think your opinions on the subject are very black and white. The world isn't black and white, it's got tons of shades of grey.
ok.
so remove it and let the patch of tissue, with its own DNA, try and survive.
There have been numerous folks born with a "twin" attached, with its own DNA, but it can't survive on its own...is the doctor a murderer if he removes it for the convenience of the healthy child?
What about if the other twin kicks the one that can't survive right out of the womb? Does that make me a murderer, because my mother miscarried my twin and when they were going to do the DNC for it, they realize she had another viable fetus (me) within her?