morningbell
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Why do you hate life so much?
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Why do you hate life so much?
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs
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kris31280
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Hell no... that's why I don't date, because I'm a single parent.
morningbell
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Beta84
They're out to get us
Well after going through discussion in here, it seems like the result is that nobody is at fault for having sex, the man is responsible for wrapping his tool (but the woman is not responsible for birth control), the woman should have the right to abort (or should have the right in specific instances) or the right to decide she wants the child, and...yeah it seems like the responsibilities and rights kinda waver back and forth. Somehow most of the guilt is placed on the guy and most of the options are given to the woman. Go figure!
You forgot the disclaimer on this one...
I was engaged to my son's father... We were kinda planning a family and the wedding at the same time, knowing that I had been told it would be difficult to become pregnant because of an injury from a car accident.Doctor's lie... Engaged for a week and baby was conceived. In retrospect, we probably should've taken it slower, but I'm not going to regret it now because my son is the absolute light of my life and I don't know how I loved and lived before he came along.
That being said, I've been on BC since a month and a half after my son was born... why? Because I don't want any more kids at this point in my life. I love my son... but one's good.
Every situation is different... and who am I to judge someone else's decisions when faced with their own situation?
Didn't forget the disclaimer. Planning a wedding and getting knocked up is a bad idea. You don't wanna be preggo when you have the wedding cuz that screws up shopping for the dress. You sit there and say you should have taken it slower and all that stuff, meaning you admit to making a mistake...and even if you don't regret it, that kinda points back toward what I've been talking about the whole time where people make decisions and it seems like you made yours.
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs
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Is THAT why? And here I figured you just thought I was ugly.
Cowgirl
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Nobody ever said that. You were biatching because you said women lie about taking it. If you don't want to risk any babies, be responsible and use a condom or don't have sex.
sunflower
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I just wanted to know why, Im not knocking you, but you might be missing out on some great women
Beta84
They're out to get us
Oh I agree. But some of the comments made it sound like if the guy knocks up the woman it's his fault. Condoms break. Birth control is more reliable. Honestly condoms should never be a first line of defense for anything but STDs. One rip and if the woman isn't taking anything u could be screwed (literally AND figuratively!)
I don't. I'm just asking. What happens if that happens? Happened to my brother. His whore of an exwife was a single mother he married. Her son was calling him "dad" and me uncle. When she decided she was done with my brother, her son was screaming that he wanted his daddy back. Traumatized the hell out of that 6 year old.
So, in the ill event that you and your sons family don't work out, will he be able to understand why his picture doesn't work?
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kris31280
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Naw, I've still got the dress... never wore it though, not even to try it on
Everything happens for a reason... I wasn't supposed to get pregnant, I was told that I'd be lucky to ever get pregnant and even luckier to ever carry to term. I had 6 miscarriages before I actually carried to term. We, as a couple, made the decision that I was going to go off birth control and if a baby was meant to happen, it would. We, as a couple, broke up. He, as a single person, decided to check out of both of our lives. I bought in to the dream of Happily Ever After... if any decision should've not been made, it's probably that one.
Is THAT why? And here I figured you just thought I was ugly.
Well that and Flipflop would probably kill me you aren't done your a liar you have talked about different situations the original one was talk the girl out of the pregnacy never did you mention that she had medical problems now again you have a comment you are pathetic I do see both sides of the issue and it is each persons right to make a decision that is comfortable for them. I know people that have done it for rape, medical and birth control. I still love each of them as it was their decision to make.
Beta84
They're out to get us
I just wanted to know why, Im not knocking you, but you might be missing out on some great women
I've never turned one down solely because of kids and like I said, if she has a kid I'd wanna get to know her first. That actually helped me avoid dating someone once that woulda been a major mistake (who just so happened to have a kid). She blamed the kid stuff on this and that...and as I got to know her better I realized she was insane and the stuff with her getting knocked up actually did factor into it.
Cowgirl
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I think the comments sounded like that because your posts sounded like you were whining about having to be responsible for condoms. :shrug:
And birth control is only as reliable as the person taking it.
Beta84
They're out to get us
Naw, I've still got the dress... never wore it though, not even to try it on
Everything happens for a reason... I wasn't supposed to get pregnant, I was told that I'd be lucky to ever get pregnant and even luckier to ever carry to term. I had 6 miscarriages before I actually carried to term. We, as a couple, made the decision that I was going to go off birth control and if a baby was meant to happen, it would. We, as a couple, broke up. He, as a single person, decided to check out of both of our lives. I bought in to the dream of Happily Ever After... if any decision should've not been made, it's probably that one.
6 miscarriages? I thought you said you had just went off birth control and just got engaged when u got pregnant. Either your timing is off or your miscarriages happened with previous relationships, in which case you still fit the bill
This_person
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Would you say that the father has the right to demand an abortion of the child, too, then?
How about the child, does the child get a vote?
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs
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you aren't done your a liar you have talked about different situations the original one was talk the girl out of the pregnacy never did you mention that she had medical problems now again you have a comment you are pathetic I do see both sides of the issue and it is each persons right to make a decision that is comfortable for them. I know people that have done it for rape, medical and birth control. I still love each of them as it was their decision to make.
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Beta84
They're out to get us
I think the comments sounded like that because your posts sounded like you were whining about having to be responsible for condoms. :shrug:
And birth control is only as reliable as the person taking it.
you're right...my posts probably did look like they were complaining. I wasn't complaining, at all. I wouldn't trust *anyone* with that kind of stuff. The one time that chick brought over a condom and insisted i use it was the first and last time that'll ever happen. Big mistake. I would always insist on using one. That's very important. I don't chance stuff like that, especially for what...maybe a little more pleasure? Please. Not worth it to knock someone up or get an STD or anything like that. Anyone who thinks it's worthwhile is an absolute moron.