Again, you have two dependents where as I get taxed instead. I find it hard to believe that you pay 1500-1700 a month in mortgage :shrug: Its absolutely ridiculous if not terrifying for a single person like me at this point...short of winning a lottery, I don't know how I'll just pop up with an extra 30-40K (10% down) to buy a house :shrug: I can get first time buyers packages but even those without the money down -- I can't afford a house, a shack, a barn, or a box on a peice of land to live --- it will still be about 1500 to 1700 easily a month... that' s not including a truck payment, parking, fuel oil (last fill up was 850.00) - miscellaneous things like fuel pump... electricity, telephone... gas to and from work... it's just impossible right now and I'm doing all I can to not let it get the best of me. If you must know... my roommate is a real estate lady part time for Coldwell Banker and if there is anyone that wants me out and to get a place of my own it's her... she too got lucky and got a house while it was a buyers market - it's a long story. But as folks getting older they want to be alone and not have roommates. I on the other hand don't have that option - if this keeps up, I will always need a spouse or roommate. I've always prided myself on being soo independent all my life and then I feel like the rugs been pulled out from under me as a single girl. :shrug: