Are you a victim of "Date & Run"?

[LexiGirl75]

The case of the vanishing date...

After several seemingly perfect outings with a new date, you’re still giddy—not to mention a little relieved at the thought of taking down your online profile. But when the time comes for you to make more plans, the unthinkable happens: He vanishes. You don’t hear from him (or her, though our experts say this disappearing act is mainly a guy’s crime). And when you call or email, it’s radio silence. Half of you wants to file a missing person report, but your sensible side knows that you’ve been the victim of a Date & Run.

Unfortunately, being blown off by a date is completely common, and it usually has nothing to do with anything you did “wrong”—though that may not relieve the hurt and betrayal you feel. Here, to help Date & Run victims get a fresh perspective, we share the most common reasons guys pull disappearing acts.

full article here

 

[Otter]

The case of the vanishing date...

After several seemingly perfect outings with a new date, you’re still giddy—not to mention a little relieved at the thought of taking down your online profile. But when the time comes for you to make more plans, the unthinkable happens: He vanishes. You don’t hear from him (or her, though our experts say this disappearing act is mainly a guy’s crime). And when you call or email, it’s radio silence. Half of you wants to file a missing person report, but your sensible side knows that you’ve been the victim of a Date & Run.

Unfortunately, being blown off by a date is completely common, and it usually has nothing to do with anything you did “wrong”—though that may not relieve the hurt and betrayal you feel. Here, to help Date & Run victims get a fresh perspective, we share the most common reasons guys pull disappearing acts.

full article here

If I remember correctly, everyone warned you about Mikey.

 

[pixiegirl]

I would never do such a thing. Did Catt tell you to post this? Tell her I'm sorry about Marty!

 

[LexiGirl75]

Ya'll are too funny. I have not dated anyone from the forums and trust me if I do, he won't run.

 

[SmallTown]

Ya'll are too funny. I have not dated anyone from the forums and trust me if I do, he won't run.

you'll kill him?

 

[mv_princess]

What if I was the one to run? Is that still wrong?

 

[Vince]

you'll kill him?

 

[ylexot]

our experts say this disappearing act is mainly a guy’s crime

I know from experience

 

[mAlice]

I know from experience

Experience? So, you've dated men, too?

 

[Pandora]

I know from experience

It probably only seems like a guy crime because women will openly complain and men wouldn't utter a word about it, an ego thing.

 

[ylexot]

Experience? So, you've dated men, too?

No. The claim was that this is something that the "disappearing act is mainly a guy’s crime" which means that women infrequently do it...which is

Pandora's explanation seems plausible.

 

[LexiGirl75]

you'll kill him?

No just get him stablilized where I can hold and lock then twirk. Now no more secrets

 

[LexiGirl75]

No. The claim was that this is something that the "disappearing act is mainly a guy’s crime" which means that women infrequently do it...which is

Pandora's explanation seems plausible.

I think morgan still has some cheese left. j/k

In order for that to happen to you (and more than once) you must be going after the wrong women. What's on your checklist?

 

[onebdzee]

What's on your checklist?

1. Younger than 60 (social security doesn't pay much)

2. Employed (NO....McDonald's, Burger King, Lowe's, etc. does not count as employment)

3. Breathing(that's always a good thing)

4. A bike(a Harley is prefered but, not manditory)

5. Taller than me

6. Does not out weigh me by more than double my weight

That good....now hook me up women

 

[kwillia]

1. Younger than 60 (social security doesn't pay much)

2. Employed (NO....McDonald's, Burger King, Lowe's, etc. does not count as employment)

3. Breathing(that's always a good thing)

4. A bike(a Harley is prefered but, not manditory)

5. Taller than me

6. Does not out weigh me by more than double my weight

That good....now hook me up women

Go to Pete.

 

[LexiGirl75]

1. Younger than 60 (social security doesn't pay much)

2. Employed (NO....McDonald's, Burger King, Lowe's, etc. does not count as employment)

3. Breathing(that's always a good thing)

4. A bike(a Harley is prefered but, not manditory)

5. Taller than me

6. Does not out weigh me by more than double my weight

That good....now hook me up women

You're in the wrong part of town. Don't you all of those men are already taken. Now go find Pete and be happy with what you get.

 

[morganj614]

I think morgan still has some cheese left. j/k

In order for that to happen to you (and more than once) you must be going after the wrong women. What's on your checklist?

I also have some wine for that cheese

One time I didn't want to be mean, so I started a big fight and let him break it off. there are times when that is necessary.

 

[onebdzee]

You're in the wrong part of town. Don't you all of those men are already taken.

Always the wrong place at the wrong time*sigh*

 

[MysticalMom]

5. Taller than me

6. Does not out weigh me by more than double my weight

That good....now hook me up women

Well these two shouldn't be hard anyway. You are what... 4'9", 90 lbs soaking wet? :shrug:

Your problem has been they run before they even get the date. (Kim)

I'm telling ya...I see wedding bells for you and T.

 

[onebdzee]

Well these two shouldn't be hard anyway. You are what... 4'9", 90 lbs soaking wet? :shrug:

Your problem has been they run before they even get the date. (Kim)

I'm telling ya...I see wedding bells for you and T.

I have you know that I am 5'4" and 120lbs!!!!!

Wedding bells?????

What drugs are you on now?