Kain...
...kids are in a position of being told everything. Ask her why she feels that way. Just let her explain how she put her opinion together.
I had a 10th grade civics teacher who promised to show us squabs how we, the US, started the war with Japan. It was an argument, a line of thought and in and of itself it makes sense just as many things make sense when context is excluded.
If you remove Japans viciously racist war against China and Japans long term build up and clear regional imperialist ambitions
then it is fairly simple to say we MADE them attack us because WE didn't honor our trade argeements with them. (We cut off exports of steel and oil to them).
Iraq is the same thing. If your daughter is focused on some particulars that make us look bad, the jail, perhaps a school age kid killed by a bomb, then it's simple to make us look bad in whole.
She'll need to reasearch Iraq, along with Japan, before our involvement if she expects her opinions to be given respect.
Just ask her why.