morningbell
hmmmmmm
Like the saying, "How can I miss you if you won't go away?"
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Like the saying, "How can I miss you if you won't go away?"
whome20603
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Obviously the OP doesn't take hints so it has to be said plainly. :shrug:
Uh, thanks for the kick but I much prefer spankings.
Umm...are you saying you want me to spank you?!
Mojo
New Member
I got the camera
nachomama
All Up In Your Grill
You need to back off. Like someone said, give him time to miss you. If you are sending him that many texts and voicemails, he ain't gonna come back; you are just confirming to him all the reasons that he broke up with you. Apparently he's felt this way for sometime, and now that he's broken up with you, he's breathing a little easier, which makes it seem like he's out living the life. You have to think that maybe breaking the news to you lifted the weight of the world off his shoulders.
Not saying it's gonna be easy, but you gotta go on. Not saying to go hook up with the first guy you meet, but go out with your friends, have a good time. Maybe he will get word that you are out and about having fun with your friends, and then maybe he'll realize that maybe you have moved on, and then he'll come back.
But being the cling-on is definitely the ultimate turnoff.
Not saying it's gonna be easy, but you gotta go on. Not saying to go hook up with the first guy you meet, but go out with your friends, have a good time. Maybe he will get word that you are out and about having fun with your friends, and then maybe he'll realize that maybe you have moved on, and then he'll come back.
But being the cling-on is definitely the ultimate turnoff.
whome20603
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LordStanley
I know nothing
nachomama
All Up In Your Grill
I think.
lovinmaryland
Well-Known Member
Hey now, you may be right but you don't have to be so mean oh 'radiant one'
I dont think she was being mean... just honest. If I broke up w/ someone and they sent me 8 text in one day and were wondering about my every move, I am not sure about you but that would ring my stalker bell
nachomama
All Up In Your Grill
Puleez. If she wanted sound, mature advice, she'd have asked her friends, not some strangers on the internet.
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kris31280
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Uh... that's not the way to win him back... don't become THAT chick, the crazy psycho chick.
Use this down time to go read a book or two. I'd start with "He's Just Not That Into You". I realize it's cliche and it's probably the last thing you want to read... but it really should be required reading for every female in the world because IT MAKES SENSE and it gives you your sense of empowerment again.
After reading that, if you two are still not back together, read "It's Called a Break Up Because It's Broken". It'll change your life
mainman
Set Trippin
MissKitty
New Member
lived it.
baileydog
I wanna be a SMIB
Puleez. If she wanted sound, mature advice, she'd have asked her friends, not some strangers on the internet.
Are you trying to say were not qualified to counsel her?
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mudd
Guest
I had a wise goat once that gave good advice on topics such as this....
should you keep txting him???
naah-naah-naah
should you keep txting him???
naah-naah-naah
whome20603
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Puleez. If she wanted sound, mature advice, she'd have asked her friends, not some strangers on the internet.
Maybe her friends aren't "sound" and "mature" :shrug:
baileydog
I wanna be a SMIB
-lilgiggles-
...trying to keep up...
Kris's advice is good. I only read half of "It's Called a Breakup Because it's Broken," but it was good. Some of what they say is a little frustrating to accept, but the authors include lots of jokes and confidence boosters. ALSO since it is a book and not a person, you can put it down and walk away if you start crying or don't like what you are "hearing." I've heard lots of good reviews on the books.
Good luck and relax. It's a lot easier to get over him if you don't talk to him and distract yourself. Also, just because you move on, doesn't mean that you will never fall back in love with him if he ever decided to come find you again. If it was meant to last, it will find a way. There's nothing you can do to change that and forcing the relationship to happen will only make both of you miserable.
Good luck and relax. It's a lot easier to get over him if you don't talk to him and distract yourself. Also, just because you move on, doesn't mean that you will never fall back in love with him if he ever decided to come find you again. If it was meant to last, it will find a way. There's nothing you can do to change that and forcing the relationship to happen will only make both of you miserable.
