Yes, it can be considered very abusive.
You and your sidekick were abusive to all the other customers in the restaurant. Selectively to the ladies that were harmed. Especially to your mother who I'm sure thought she could take her family in to eat without embarrassment ,but sadly found out she was wrong.
If you can't eat a meal in public without portraying yourself as a misplaced kindergartner...let the chips fall where they may. Even some of the 15 year olds I know would have been embarrassed to have been with you. At 15 most try to carry themselves as older...its that in a hurry to grow up thing they all teens have.
Trust me, your moms a saint. Had it been me... never mind don't want to go there. Just thank your lucky stars and fight the fight to reach the 15 plateau , you are way behind in the game and I wish you luck to at least catch up to your given age.
Good morning all
my mom isnt a saint..i told u what she said to me the lies about me needing pampers and the other stuff. i would trade moms anyday