1 book you simply MUST read:It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.
I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
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Sorry I screwed with your head like that. We can still get together for the occasional fling
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.
I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.
I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
This sounds like your average sappy crap romance tenny bopper love story film. I'll sum up the ending for you, that'll it make it all better.
"Go! Go to him!"
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.
I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
Go to the Bridge and give the divers something to do.It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. ... I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
Go to the Bridge and give the divers something to do.
Oh pish. Be nice and give her a cookie.
Your just saying that 'cause you want to get rid of the left overs in your freezer?
Oh pish. Be nice and give her a cookie.
The kind with psychiatric meds instead of chocolate chips.
so, let me get this right because I can be just a bit slow at times.
you and Mr. Perfect date for two years, you go psycho and dump him.
you date some other guy for a year, then go psycho again and dump him too.
now, you want Mr. Perfect back so you can emotionally connect with him once again with the chance of Sybil popping back up and making you run off with the shelf stocker from Wal-Mart, leaving Mr. Perfect to once again lick his wounds, (or what ever else he can reach,, hey, hes perfect right?)
and, you kinda think that there might be a chance that Mr. Perfect will come back to you because??????
by the way, you mention he had the father qualities,,, Is this to say that you have children? how old are they and do they know mom is dating long term, then going psycho on the guys?
here is the advice.
Forget Mr Perfect, find a job somewhere that you are not as well known, then set up house, start working your job, join the church (pray for sanity) wait until the next guy comes along and just see where it goes.
by now if Mr Perfect is as Perfect as you claim he is, hes getting laid every night by different model type babes. He has moved on and is living the good life. If he has not moved on then you dont want him anyway, hes too clingy.