Can't get over him....

BuddyLee

Football addict
This sounds like your average sappy crap romance tenny bopper love story film. I'll sum up the ending for you, that'll it make it all better.:yay:



"Go! Go to him!":lmao:
 

Sula

WDF. So worth the wait.
Don't move unless you want to. There is no easy way to get over someone and all the platitudes in the world won't help. Just keep in mind that you WILL get over this and make sure you learn from it. It won't get any better until you CHOSE to let him go and recognize that you can be happy.
 
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kris31280

Guest
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
1 book you simply MUST read:

"It's Called a Break Up Because It's Broken"
 

Beetlejuice

New Member
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks

I still love u baby.... come back!!!
 
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toppick08

Guest
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks


You're not going to put me on iggy too, are ya'........:coffee:
 

donbarzini

Well-Known Member
This sounds like your average sappy crap romance tenny bopper love story film. I'll sum up the ending for you, that'll it make it all better.:yay:



"Go! Go to him!":lmao:

No, no, no that's not quite right. It goes like this:

(In the voice of the gruff, but loving housekeeper) "Chile, you bettah go get that boy". (Fade to black)
 

AiryT

New Member
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. We dated for about two years. We connected emotionally, mentally and spiritually. Things were great and then I started getting cold feet about it all ~ I had been married before and was scared to get that involved again.

I wasn't even looking for someone when we met and he was different from anyone else I had ever dated. He was the 'father' type from the beginning and I knew it, I could just feel it. I knew he would be a great dad. He was such a caring man. Well....long story short. I miss him so much even still. It's so hard for me to date. I've tried...I compare them to him, I call them his name. It's the strangest thing. I don't think I ever loved the way I did with him. I just broke up with another boyfriend because I'm just not ready to totally move on. It's not fair to the men I'm dating. It's so difficult because I look back and see where I could have done things differently but more than anything....I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks


Maybe he feels the same way or has he moved on? It's worth talking to him if you can.
 
It's been almost a year now and I can't get over this one guy. ... I want to be able to move on with my life. Does that require moving out of the area or what? any advice ?
thanks
Go to the Bridge and give the divers something to do.
 

bcp

In My Opinion
so, let me get this right because I can be just a bit slow at times.

you and Mr. Perfect date for two years, you go psycho and dump him.
you date some other guy for a year, then go psycho again and dump him too.

now, you want Mr. Perfect back so you can emotionally connect with him once again with the chance of Sybil popping back up and making you run off with the shelf stocker from Wal-Mart, leaving Mr. Perfect to once again lick his wounds, (or what ever else he can reach,, hey, hes perfect right?)

and, you kinda think that there might be a chance that Mr. Perfect will come back to you because??????

by the way, you mention he had the father qualities,,, Is this to say that you have children? how old are they and do they know mom is dating long term, then going psycho on the guys?


here is the advice.
Forget Mr Perfect, find a job somewhere that you are not as well known, then set up house, start working your job, join the church (pray for sanity) wait until the next guy comes along and just see where it goes.

by now if Mr Perfect is as Perfect as you claim he is, hes getting laid every night by different model type babes. He has moved on and is living the good life. If he has not moved on then you dont want him anyway, hes too clingy.
 

bcp

In My Opinion
by the way, think twice about that bridge thing.
I understand that your outsides slow down much faster than your insides when you hit the water, this causes all of your organs to rip violently from where they are attached. saves time for the coroner, he just opens and dumps.

now, where this picture might be pleasant when thinking about it while pushing the guy across the street that turned you in for not cutting your grass 20 times last year,, It does not create a feeling of holiday warmth when considering that outcome for your own intestinal tract.
 

onebdzee

off the shelf
so, let me get this right because I can be just a bit slow at times.

you and Mr. Perfect date for two years, you go psycho and dump him.
you date some other guy for a year, then go psycho again and dump him too.

now, you want Mr. Perfect back so you can emotionally connect with him once again with the chance of Sybil popping back up and making you run off with the shelf stocker from Wal-Mart, leaving Mr. Perfect to once again lick his wounds, (or what ever else he can reach,, hey, hes perfect right?)

and, you kinda think that there might be a chance that Mr. Perfect will come back to you because??????

by the way, you mention he had the father qualities,,, Is this to say that you have children? how old are they and do they know mom is dating long term, then going psycho on the guys?


here is the advice.
Forget Mr Perfect, find a job somewhere that you are not as well known, then set up house, start working your job, join the church (pray for sanity) wait until the next guy comes along and just see where it goes.

by now if Mr Perfect is as Perfect as you claim he is, hes getting laid every night by different model type babes. He has moved on and is living the good life. If he has not moved on then you dont want him anyway, hes too clingy.

Leave pan lady and run away with me :flowers:
 
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