I just want to say i didnt come on here to start anything, but i was looking through the forum and saw that my future MIL said
"ur damn right"
when someone asked her,
"so u would go against the wishes of the childs mother."
Now any mother would agree with me when they find out that someone is not doing what you think is best for your child, behind your back.
That is all. Now if I'm immature than what is my future MIL?
She's arguing with a 20 year old and calling me stupid and what not. so if im immature than the 50 something woman who is going back and forth with me isnt any better.
If you were mature enough to handle this information properly you would have calmly called your future MIL and asked if she has done this to you in the past.
At that point it is your opportunity to A) nicely explain how this would bother you and B) decide if you should leave your child with her again
Remember - you've had a boy, you're going to be a MIL at some point in your life. What kind of daughter-in-law will you want to have?
I doubt you're being that person right now. Grow Up!