It's not offensive to me...
I won't disagree with any of that. Especially "political cowardice".
Question: You've been fighting for 2 days to convince us that there is no such thing as nicotine addiction. If there weren't so many people that use the word "addiction" as an excuse to continue bad behavior (instead of just being honest and saying "screw you, I WANT my cigarette), would you be more willing to admit that it does exist?
In other words, if people stopped using addiction as an excuse and treated as a hurdle to overcome instead, would it cease to be so offensive to you?
...in the slightest. One of my people is a 40 year smoker who I had this conversation with and he says, without hesitation, that smoking is an addiction, no question about it.
Then, as we dug into it a little bit deeper, he talked about how he never smokes in the car when his wife along, including long trips (which would make me smoke), he can sit through entire movies without any problem and does not smoke in the house. Also, we were planting last week and smoke is a no no, he had zero problem for hour or two stretches until we took breaks.
After awhile he was talking more along the lines of a nasty habit rather than an 'addiction'.
In addition to being interested in what people do and how they think I have a noble interest as well; I believe it makes it harder for people to quit when we bandy about words like 'addiction'. Oh my! I can't quit! After all, I am addicted! Whose to blame?
Look at minorities. They've been told, for over 30 years, if you are poor or don't like your job or commit crime or live in a bad place, why, it's not your fault! The man has conspired to keep you down! The CIA imported drugs to destroy you all! You can't help it!
I think that is insidious and only serves the ends of race hustlers and white guilt politicians while hurting people looking for an excuse where a kick in the azz might help.
What would a ghetto be like if everyone thought and was told; You can stop doing bad. You can start doing good. You can learn and grow and move on to a better life for you and your children. It's no ones fault but yours and no one gets the credit for success but YOU.
We are a social people, Americans. We tend to go with the flow, the trend. What cloths to wear, what to drink, to say, etc. Jelly bean sales went through the roof when Reagan simply had them on his desk. Miller got us to drink lite beer. Al Gore has convinced people freezing their azzes off right now that the planet is burning up and we're all gonna die next week and we have to do something about it, now.
I just think it is a disservice to people to tell them they're trapped when all they gotta do is not buy them anymore, not pick one up any more and not stick it in your mouth any more.
One day at a time.