Most of the people at work were so happy for Daisy about her capture, but that was just the beginning of her adventure. She hid from us for about 6 months in the house after I released her from the temporary 2 week cage. Oh well, I put out food and it disappeared. Eventually she felt comfortable enough to show up for petting and such.
Daisy LOVED to warm herself in front of the wood-stove insert in the fireplace. She has always been a fan of extra heat, so anywhere I would setup a heating pad, Daisy would camp out there <G>, During her decline over the past year or so, I have provided Daisy with a heating pad to use free choice.
I can't even imagine what my life will be like w/o her after all these years. I want to keep her alive for ME. I know it's not the right thing to do.
I am faced with putting down one of the most special cats I've ever rescued. Daisy is a small Torti female that lived outside in a parking lot as a feral , and she's been an indoor cat with me for about 7 years (she's approximately 10-15 years old).
I saw her in the parking lot where I worked with a serious leg injury in February 2003, so I lured her into a trap cage, took her to the vet, surgery was performed to fix her leg, and she was also spayed. She recuperated at my house in a big dog crate for 6 weeks, then she went back outside to her "normal life" until I decided to kidnap her (lol) and take her home a few years later.
Tomorrow afternoon at 3:30 will be very difficult for me if I don't reschedule her euthanasia. Several people who know Daisy's circumstances have suggested to me that her quality of life isn't good. That I should consider putting her down. They charge $180 to have ashes returned, so I'll probably end up burying her at home.
So sorry, Arkie
Thanks. I picked out a place to bury her yesterday up on the hill, with a view of the creek <G>. I'm not going to back out, it's time.
awww you are breaking my heart.
Thanks. I picked out a place to bury her yesterday up on the hill, with a view of the creek <G>. I'm not going to back out, it's time.
She's at peace now on the hill, overlooking the forest on one side, the horse pasture on the other, and the creek.
Thankfully the handyman showed up to help us dig her grave. I took a beautiful large rock he dug up, and I will put Daisy's name on it, and keep it (I have a rock fetish lol).
The vet said I shouldn't feel guilty because her quality of life wasn't good for some time.
She's at peace now on the hill, overlooking the forest on one side, the horse pasture on the other, and the creek.
Thankfully the handyman showed up to help us dig her grave. I took a beautiful large rock he dug up, and I will put Daisy's name on it, and keep it (I have a rock fetish lol).
The vet said I shouldn't feel guilty because her quality of life wasn't good for some time.
Truly sorry about this.
We just said goodbye to our greatest dog over the weekend. She was 17 and we had her from 8 weeks old. As tough as it is, you have to say to yourself it's not about you but your friends quality of life. Our Daisy would have held on if we let her but it just wouldn't have been fair. We were both with her at the end.
Through eyes....Arkie, "I'm sorry for your loss" just doesn't convey how I feel you right now.
Sorry for both you and Ark. Its very hard to put down a family member.
I've heard people say they don't want another critter after the pain they suffered from the loss of a pet. I think once we get over the initial painful part of the feelings, we are better able to the love the next one even more <G>.