Daisy Mae Duke is a Special Girl

mamatutu

mama to two
Most of the people at work were so happy for Daisy about her capture, but that was just the beginning of her adventure. She hid from us for about 6 months in the house after I released her from the temporary 2 week cage. Oh well, I put out food and it disappeared. Eventually she felt comfortable enough to show up for petting and such.

Daisy LOVED to warm herself in front of the wood-stove insert in the fireplace. She has always been a fan of extra heat, so anywhere I would setup a heating pad, Daisy would camp out there <G>, During her decline over the past year or so, I have provided Daisy with a heating pad to use free choice.

I can't even imagine what my life will be like w/o her after all these years. I want to keep her alive for ME. I know it's not the right thing to do. :bawl:

That is something I left out of my first post. Our selfishness, because we don't want to let them go. That is the whole thing about life/death. The ones left behind are the ones that suffer, as in grieving. The one that is leaving, whether a pet or relative, has gone to such a wonderful place that we should be happy for them, but we are sad because we miss them so much. *reaching for tissue* This thread needs lots of huggies!:huggy::huggy::huggy::huggy::huggy:
 
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frequentflier

happy to be living
I am faced with putting down one of the most special cats I've ever rescued. Daisy is a small Torti female that lived outside in a parking lot as a feral , and she's been an indoor cat with me for about 7 years (she's approximately 10-15 years old).

I saw her in the parking lot where I worked with a serious leg injury in February 2003, so I lured her into a trap cage, took her to the vet, surgery was performed to fix her leg, and she was also spayed. She recuperated at my house in a big dog crate for 6 weeks, then she went back outside to her "normal life" until I decided to kidnap her (lol) and take her home a few years later.

Tomorrow afternoon at 3:30 will be very difficult for me if I don't reschedule her euthanasia. Several people who know Daisy's circumstances have suggested to me that her quality of life isn't good. That I should consider putting her down. They charge $180 to have ashes returned, so I'll probably end up burying her at home.

So sorry, Arkie :huggy:
 

luvmygdaughters

Well-Known Member
Thanks. I picked out a place to bury her yesterday up on the hill, with a view of the creek <G>. I'm not going to back out, it's time.

:huggy::huggy: Its such a hard decision to make, but they let you know when its time. It doesnt make it any easier, but you're doing the right thing for your beloved friend Arkie.
 

wharf rat

Smilin on a cloudy day
Thanks. I picked out a place to bury her yesterday up on the hill, with a view of the creek <G>. I'm not going to back out, it's time.


Had you and your friend on my mind today.
You gave her a life that so many other animals will never know and I'm sure she returned the favor back to you countless times over.
Sounds like she'll have a peacful end to a really good life and as hard as it is, that may be the greatest gift of them all.
 

ArkRescue

Adopt me please !
She's at peace now on the hill, overlooking the forest on one side, the horse pasture on the other, and the creek.

Thankfully the handyman showed up to help us dig her grave. I took a beautiful large rock he dug up, and I will put Daisy's name on it, and keep it (I have a rock fetish lol).

The vet said I shouldn't feel guilty because her quality of life wasn't good for some time.
 

ICit

Jam out with ur clam out
She's at peace now on the hill, overlooking the forest on one side, the horse pasture on the other, and the creek.

Thankfully the handyman showed up to help us dig her grave. I took a beautiful large rock he dug up, and I will put Daisy's name on it, and keep it (I have a rock fetish lol).

The vet said I shouldn't feel guilty because her quality of life wasn't good for some time.

:huggy:
 

DEEKAYPEE8569

Well-Known Member
She's at peace now on the hill, overlooking the forest on one side, the horse pasture on the other, and the creek.

Thankfully the handyman showed up to help us dig her grave. I took a beautiful large rock he dug up, and I will put Daisy's name on it, and keep it (I have a rock fetish lol).

The vet said I shouldn't feel guilty because her quality of life wasn't good for some time.

Through :bawl: eyes....Arkie, "I'm sorry for your loss" just doesn't convey how I feel you right now.
 

luvmygdaughters

Well-Known Member
She's at peace now on the hill, overlooking the forest on one side, the horse pasture on the other, and the creek.

:flowers: RIP Daisy Mae Duke
 

Lilypad

Well-Known Member
Truly sorry about this.
We just said goodbye to our greatest dog over the weekend. She was 17 and we had her from 8 weeks old. As tough as it is, you have to say to yourself it's not about you but your friends quality of life. Our Daisy would have held on if we let her but it just wouldn't have been fair. We were both with her at the end.

So sorry to read this........:huggy:
 

ArkRescue

Adopt me please !
Sorry for both you and Ark. Its very hard to put down a family member.

I've heard people say they don't want another critter after the pain they suffered from the loss of a pet. I think once we get over the initial painful part of the feelings, we are better able to the love the next one even more <G>.
 

ontheriver

Well-Known Member
I've heard people say they don't want another critter after the pain they suffered from the loss of a pet. I think once we get over the initial painful part of the feelings, we are better able to the love the next one even more <G>.

better to have loved and lost......

I'd suffer it all again.
 
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