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Tigerlily

Luvin Life !!!
I have seen many varied opinions here and can see good points with all of them. I am not thinking about forever with anyone at this point in my life. I just happen to like a person a lot who has kids that would probably get along well together. I think if done properly then we could all have a good time together. I don't want to feel as if I have to hide that someone is in my life from my kids. My kids have asked me when they could meet these children so that tells me that it is not such a big deal to them.
 
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Tigerlily

Luvin Life !!!
I had experience with this first hand with my ex and his previous girlfriend. They had sleepovers etc right in front of the kids. When I found out I put my foot down. I told them I did not care about them spending time together with her kids and ours but if they were going to wake up and find daddy in the bed with somone else they needed to come home. I will also add I relaxed on this after they had been together a few months. I just did not want them seeing dad and his flavor of the week. All in all the kids did not seem to care about any of it. It was more of an issue for me.
 
sockgirl77

sockgirl77

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Qpid said:
So your son lives with you and you have a male "roomate" who is not this boys father and is not your boyfriend?? :confused:
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Yep. He is just a friend. I do not have a bf. My son has his own room. I have my own room. My roomate has his own room. Any your point?
 
Qpid

Qpid

New Member
sockgirl77 said:
Yep. He is just a friend. I do not have a bf. My son has his own room. I have my own room. My roomate has his own room. Any your point?
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Almost there.....

how old is your son? :confused:
 
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Tigerlily

Luvin Life !!!
I don't understand how this has any relevence at all. What if you lived with just your dad or your brother would that be bad?
 
Qpid

Qpid

New Member
sockgirl77 said:
Almost 15 months. This is a little dowhatish
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oh my gosh :rolleyes:

I would say your a fawkin fool if you can't see how trifling this is. :whistle:

You got a "friend" living with you and your 1 year old and you want people to think there is nothing wrong with that and that you two aren't bonin??? :lmao:

Not to mention...what does the absent father think of this??? :confused:
 
sockgirl77

sockgirl77

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Qpid said:
oh my gosh :rolleyes:

I would say your a fawkin fool if you can't see how trifling this is. :whistle:

You got a "friend" living with you and your 1 year old and you want people to think there is nothing wrong with that and that you two aren't bonin??? :lmao:

Not to mention...what does the absent father think of this??? :confused:
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1. he is just a friend. i am renting from him
2. the absent father is absent. therefore, it is none of his concern.
 
Pete

Pete

Repete
Qpid said:
oh my gosh :rolleyes:

I would say your a fawkin fool if you can't see how trifling this is. :whistle:

You got a "friend" living with you and your 1 year old and you want people to think there is nothing wrong with that and that you two aren't bonin??? :lmao:

Not to mention...what does the absent father think of this??? :confused:
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AHA!More conservative talk from you!
 
Qpid

Qpid

New Member
sockgirl77 said:
1. he is just a friend. i am renting from him
2. the absent father is absent. therefore, it is none of his concern.
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so you live with him, he doesn't live with you??? :confused:

please dont back track
 
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Tigerlily

Luvin Life !!!
When I lived in Va bch My ex and I rented a room out in the house to one of his single friends from the base. I thought is was great that when my ex was at sea that there was a man there. There was no hanky panky of any kind. Because I had a child there was that bad too?
 
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