Dear Abby: My wife used to.....

vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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stockgirl said:
I just could not be with a man like that. My bf and I rarely argue about anything. He's a very laid back and passive person, but if I were to get out of line...he'd put me back in my place very quickly. :lol:
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Now see, isn't this more interesting than OP?

Dear Abby, my wife used to be a porn star and I'm uncomfortable with that.
Oh big deal, like you were a virgin when you got married. :rolleyes:

:lmao:
 
stockgirl

stockgirl

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vraiblonde said:
Now see, isn't this more interesting than OP?

Dear Abby, my wife used to be a porn star and I'm uncomfortable with that.
Oh big deal, like you were a virgin when you got married. :rolleyes:

:lmao:
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He probably wouldn't have even gotten mad if his friends didn't get to see a video of his wife's goods doing well...what they did. He's all butthurt now because his friends know what her cooch looks like and that she likes to take it up the butt. Booeffinghoo. Be proud, your friends had to pay to see what you get for free. WTF is Abby going to do to help any of these losers?
 
stockgirl

stockgirl

Stocki
Save_a_Horse said:
kinda like mayb he`s using ^ all those sox in the dresser drawer, or found a pine tree knot hole. :killingme

sick pups. maybe he`s not mastered the art of yodeling w/U???????????? :killingme

whata bs thread, shulda known betta by .......... wtf eva. friggin hilarious.
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#### off.
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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stockgirl said:
He probably wouldn't have even gotten mad if his friends didn't get to see a video of his wife's goods doing well...what they did. He's all butthurt now because his friends know what her cooch looks like and that she likes to take it up the butt. Booeffinghoo. Be proud, your friends had to pay to see what you get for free. WTF is Abby going to do to help any of these losers?
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That's not the point. The point is that she should have told him prior to marriage. Now he is wondering what else she might be hiding.

It's not her misspent youth; it's her dishonesty that's the problem.

It shocks and dismays me that I have to spell that out for anyone. Or did none of you actually read the letter?
 
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SoMD_Fun_Guy

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itsbob said:
2.) Did he see the videos?? Is he upset because she won't do the icky things for him, and would for money?? (probably more in line with the answer most expected)..
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:yeahthat:

That's exactly what I was gonna say. She won't do those things with him. Or she did things he disapproves of (like bangin each and every guy in the frat house). :lmao:

Or maybe (as posted before), he's ashamed cuz he found out by watchin the porno at a bachelor party and now all his buddies know.
Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it - I'd be giving him :high5:
Of course now all his buddies are renting her movies and jerkin off to his wife. :ohwell: But as long as she's committed to him now and not givin it out to them then so what?
 
stockgirl

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vraiblonde said:
That's not the point. The point is that she should have told him prior to marriage. Now he is wondering what else she might be hiding.

It's not her misspent youth; it's her dishonesty that's the problem.

It shocks and dismays me that I have to spell that out for anyone. Or did none of you actually read the letter?
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Yes, Mommy.
 
Larry Gude

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vraiblonde said:
That's not the point. The point is that she should have told him prior to marriage. Now he is wondering what else she might be hiding.

It's not her misspent youth; it's her dishonesty that's the problem.

It shocks and dismays me that I have to spell that out for anyone. Or did none of you actually read the letter?
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I am devastated. When I confronted her about it, she cried harder than I had ever seen. She said she was lost, and it's the biggest regret of her entire life.

I understand how hard it can be to tell someone you have done something like this. I haven't led a perfect life either, and I have my own skeletons and things that I would never mention. But still, I can't get over this. I have never felt pain like this in my entire life and don't know what to do. I love my wife and don't want a divorce, but it haunts my every thought. We have had a great life and I trust her completely. What should I do to get over this?
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Biggest regret of her life

He has things he wouldn't tell

We have a great life and I trust her completely


So, it has nothing to do with her honesty. He trusts her completely. She just never wanted it known. He has things he hasn't told her. They have a great life.

Shouldn't he and she focus on those three things and just work through it?


Or, is he worried about these things he doesn't want to talk about?

Or, do we not take him at his word that they have a great life and he trusts her completely?

I mean, how much of this do we read into and how much do we take at face value?

:popcorn:
 
Larry Gude

Larry Gude

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SoMD_Fun_Guy said:
:yeahthat:

That's exactly what I was gonna say. She won't do those things with him. ?
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Do we take him at his word that they have a great life and he trusts her completely or not?

He didn't say "Dear Abbey, my wife refuses to do X, Y and Z with me and my cousin Zed yet, now I find she used to do these things for money. If I offer to pay her, should I also ask for a family discount or is that pushing things a bit?"
 
jetmonkey

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jetmonkey said:
I feel like "I was a cum-dumpster for cash" is a pretty crucial piece of information :confused:
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Him: Okay, honey; I've finally come to terms with your porn career, and am ready to move past this and get on with our lives.

Her: BTW, it was all zoo porn.

Him:
 

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Larry Gude said:
Biggest regret of her life

He has things he wouldn't tell

We have a great life and I trust her completely


So, it has nothing to do with her honesty. He trusts her completely. She just never wanted it known. He has things he hasn't told her. They have a great life.

Shouldn't he and she focus on those three things and just work through it?


Or, is he worried about these things he doesn't want to talk about?

Or, do we not take him at his word that they have a great life and he trusts her completely?

I mean, how much of this do we read into and how much do we take at face value?

:popcorn:
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Exactly. If the Dear Abby writer has his own secrets that he isn't sharing with his wife, then it's not about Her "dishonesty" Vrai. It's about his insecurities.

If you are in a good relationship, which the idiot says he is in, then he should not be worrying about what happened before "he" came into the picture. :pun:

If anybody is so concerned about what your SO does before "you" then you shouldn't have an SO.

Personally I'd rather marry a porn star than the King of the "Meat and Greet" who bangs like a screen door every time the wind blows.
 
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