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cattitude

cattitude

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punjabigyrl said:
In my opinion, I would have an abortion. I am not be prepared to take of of the little being with all the disablitieshe/she would have. The financial, physical and emaotional toll on you and your family.
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Do you have children? Do you plan on getting pregnant? There's no test that's 100%. Life's a gamble..why not lock yourself in a closet now.
 
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misshelper said:
I don't know about anyone else, but I love my kids whether they are normal or not.
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Don't get me wrong I love my children regardless, and if something were wrong with them it wouldn't change my love for them. I just think it is the womans decision, though I feel more strongly if there was a possible chance of handicap within the family. JMO
 
onebdzee

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punjabigyrl said:
In my opinion, I would have an abortion. I am not be prepared to take of of the little being with all the disablitieshe/she would have. The financial, physical and emaotional toll on you and your family.
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Oh....so are you prepared to deal with the emotional toll that it's going to take on once you have a child?....From the moment that you have that abortion the emotional toll that it will take on you won't be any where near what it will be once you hold your own child in your arms

You will look back and remember that day that you took an innocent life just because it wasn't perfect by your standards....every time your perfect child does something(first smile, first tooth, first step, etc), you will remember that day that you made the decision to take those "firsts" away from you and that child
 
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cattitude

cattitude

My Sweetest Boy
SingerLady said:
Don't get me wrong I love my children regardless, and if something were wrong with them it wouldn't change my love for them. I just think it is the womans decision, though I feel more strongly if there was a possible chance of handicap within the family. JMO
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Sounds like you are changing the original question.
 
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

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onebdzee said:
Oh....so are you prepared to deal with the emotional toll that it's going to take on once you have a child?....From the moment that you have that abortion the emotional toll that it will take on you won't be any where near what it will be once you hold your own child in your arms

You will look back and remember that day that you took an innocent life just because it wasn't perfect by your standards....every time your perfect child does something(first smile, first tooth, first step, etc), you will remember that day that you made the decision to take those "firsts" away from you and that child
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Omg, 1bdz...I didn't realize you were a psychic!
 
vraiblonde

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SingerLady said:
Oh okay...:rolleyes:
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pcjohnnyb said:
:lol: Don't you love the open-mindedness?
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We may have differing opinions on what constitutes a "great" parent. My opinion is that killing your baby in such a gruesome way makes you "not great".

But again, I'm completely pro-choice and would never in a million years take away a woman's right to kill her unborn baby, regardless of the circumstances. I just like to call it what it is instead of sanitize it and pretend it's like clipping your fingernails. :yay:
 
LusbyMom

LusbyMom

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SingerLady said:
A while ago there was a thread on abortion, about how far along was too late. Well what if you found out that your baby would be forever handicapped? Would you go forward with the abortion or have the child? And again, whats the furthest in the pregnancy you would have the procedure? I'm just trying to get different peoples views.
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No one can say what they would do in this situation unless they are actually in it. You might be able to say now that you would abort a handicapped kid but when the test results came back you could very well change your mind after feeling your baby grow inside of you.
 
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

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JULZ said:
How would you know? Have you had an abortion?
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:lol:
Do I have to be shot to know that it is painful?
Your point is null.
We can make observations of people who undergo a procedure, like abortion, and not have to experience it ourselves to know that people react different to it :yay:
 
theArtistFormerlyKnownAs

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onebdzee said:
I think he needs to go have an abortion and report back to all of us how his emotional well being is
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from your website:
In a recent study in Buffalo more than 400 women were poled two years after they had an abortion, and it was found that only seven out of ten were glad for their decision, 12% were unsure, and 19% regretted it. (Western Report 1998, 29) In the past there has been debate as to the mere existence of Post-Abortion-Stress disorder, this paper will dispel that confusion.
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That is more than I would even think, but that sure does lower the percentage of women who will likely experience Post-abortion-stress :shrug:
 
JULZ

JULZ

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pcjohnnyb said:
:lol:
Do I have to be shot to know that it is painful?
Your point is null.
We can make observations of people who undergo a procedure, like abortion, and not have to experience it ourselves to know that people react different to it :yay:
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Yes you should be shot.
 
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SingerLady

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Okay......:offtopic: but does anyone know of any pediatricians in st. mary's county who accept AmeriGroup? Who are not affiliated with the SHAHS?
 
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