Fat wives

[lucky_bee]

I don't think it's "whatever". I think we get trapped in our cocoon of movies and dinner dates out and cooking every night when before it was just cereal or tuna fish. It's not intentional that we do it. At least it wasn't for me.

when I'm not cooking for someone else, I'm fine with a turkey wrap or some eggs every night. There's a lot of upkeep too for people who don't come by a thinner physique naturally and that's the first thing to go when you have no time for yourself. Once someone else is involved: significant other and/or children, the "me time" gets drastically cut. Responsibilities add on, life happens :shrug:

Most women are painfully aware they've added some lbs here or there. Guarantee it's at the back of their mind at all times. It's hardly ever from "whatever".

 

[vraiblonde]

Most women are painfully aware they've added some lbs here or there. Guarantee it's at the back of their mind at all times. It's hardly ever from "whatever".

I will almost guarantee that no woman who has gained a significant amount of weight thinks, "Whatever" about it.

 

[lovinmaryland]

Screw that. You are gorgeous, no matter what.

Thanks!

I think lovinmaryland should do the challenge, men love some sexy full lips.

 

[Pete]

I will almost guarantee that no woman who has gained a significant amount of weight thinks, "Whatever" about it.

About 15 minutes in a gathering place of people would seemingly conflict with that concept.

 

[KDENISE977]

when I'm not cooking for someone else, I'm fine with a turkey wrap or some eggs every night. There's a lot of upkeep too for people who don't come by a thinner physique naturally and that's the first thing to go when you have no time for yourself. Once someone else is involved: significant other and/or children, the "me time" gets drastically cut. Responsibilities add on, life happens :shrug:

Most women are painfully aware they've added some lbs here or there. Guarantee it's at the back of their mind at all times. It's hardly ever from "whatever".

Agree with ALL of this. Well, except the kid part, I actually LOST weight from chasing my kid around !!

 

[Toxick]

But I don't understand why men seem to detest fat women but then marry them.

That's because you seem to be making the erroneous assumption that ALL men detest fat women.

There is a huge segment of the male population that prefers larger women.
I would daresay that these men do not detest them, and probably do not make crass remarks about them.





There is also the possibility that the women you are referring were slender when they got married... and then the wedding cake added 25 inches to their waste.

 

[JeJeTe]

Agree with ALL of this. Well, except the kid part, I actually LOST weight from chasing my kid around !!

I never did. It's the picking off of their plate that kills ya. Lol.

 

[sockgirl77]

I can completely relate to what you are saying. I've been 125 my whole life and now I weigh more than ever after three surgeries and two kids. My initial question was not to be mean - and sure,the bottom feeding comment comes across that way,but I see a difference between a woman who is a size 14 and my 600 Pound Life types. Also,notice that often in the forums there are jokes about weight - people of Walmart pics,too tight clothing,etc,but now it's all about loving the inside. Keep it real,everyone. I stand by everything I said to Socki,she's a trashy instigator and a liar. She has jumped on me in multiple threads so tough crap. So to summarize before I have to step out - Socki,KMA. Fatties of the forum,I am too. Get over it. And that's that.

I have no clue who you are and really do not care. :shrug:

 

[KDENISE977]

I never did. It's the picking off of their plate that kills ya. Lol.

OH I do that now !!! I actually find myself putting too much food on the kids plate because I know he'll never eat it and as i'm walking from the kitchen table to the trash to scrape the plate I take a bite or two last night was mashed potatoes

And in regards to the losing weight, it was when he hit about 2 and I was chasing a lot. I also didn't have any sort of athletic activity in my life prior. So, ended up losing about 40 lbs from running up and down stairs, chasing the brat, not sitting down....EVER !!!!

 

[Dakota]

Losing weight after the 1st one was easy, but when I had the 2nd one, they put me on steroids to stop early term labor. The only thing different between the way I looked for the next few years that followed and the Incredible Hulk was that I wasn't green.

 

[FED_UP]

Are women more scrutinized by men or other women?

 

[KDENISE977]

Are women more scrutinized by men or other women?

Other women I think

Men have 2 thoughts
a. I'd hit that
b. I'd not hit that with someone elses ####

 

[JeJeTe]

Are women more scrutinized by men or other women?

Yes. We need to be perfect while men can have "dadbod" and it's the hottest thing since sliced bread.

 

[lucky_bee]

Are women more scrutinized by men or other women?

women.

I'd put up with a decent amount from a guy if he made my time worth while. But women? bitch wore a crop top and high-waisted shorts to the tiki bar and we're done.

 

[FED_UP]

Other women I think

Men have 2 thoughts
a. I'd hit that
b. I'd not hit that with someone elses ####

You seem to know the male species pretty well.

 

[PeoplesElbow]

Other women I think

Men have 2 thoughts
a. I'd hit that
b. I'd not hit that with someone elses ####

Don't forget I'd hit that but I dont want anyone to know I did.

 

[JeJeTe]

Yes. We need to be perfect while men can have "dadbod" and it's the hottest thing since sliced bread.

I read this wrong.

We are scrutinized more by other women. Why, I have no idea. But we are.

 

[Hank]

Don't forget I'd hit that but I dont want anyone to know I did.

 

[KDENISE977]

Don't forget I'd hit that but I dont want anyone to know I did.

I stand corrected !! That one too...

 

[SG_Player1974]

Men have 2 thoughts
a. I'd hit that
b. I'd hit that if I was drunk enough!

Fixed!