flirting when married

Christy

Christy

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LadyWolf said:
If I'm at a party w/my husband and I zero in on some woman admiring my husband and he doesn't notice or doesn't acknowledge her, then fine. If he notices and I see mutual eye contact or some form of mutual acknowledgment...then that's flirting and it's an insult to me.
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Wow! Just Wow!
 
Merlin99

Merlin99

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FED_UP said:
Women get away with so much stuff, money, jobs, drinks, etc etc etc,,, just because they got T and A. I am going to get a sex change dammit :mad:. Umma get a butt like Ines Sainz, breast like Pamel Anderson and lips Gina Gershon.
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Don't care how much surgery you get done, they all end up looking like this.
 

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Ken King

Ken King

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Flirting is to behave amorously without serious intent. As such I don't see it as harmful to a healthy relationship. Now on the other hand if one has intent to engage with another beyond their spouse then that is "coming on" and would obviously be a problem.
 
Justme2

Justme2

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This is what I was talking about

LadyWolf said:
It doesn't matter!!! What part of FLIRTING does anyone NOT UNDERSTAND? The purpose of flirting is to get attention. Certain eye contact, body language, etc. People aren't stupid, you know the signs. YOU CAN TELL when your other half is FLIRTING. If you can't...then there is a problem. Talking is talking. If you find someone attractive, and they speak to you and smile, you're gonna smile back because you find them attractive. If you or the other person goes out of their way to speak or make eye contact, then that poses for a red flag. If I'm at a party w/my husband and I zero in on some woman admiring my husband and he doesn't notice or doesn't acknowledge her, then fine. If he notices and I see mutual eye contact or some form of mutual acknowledgment...then that's flirting and it's an insult to me.
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So what if the other person was flirting with your Husband. Don't you trust HIM? So now it an argument, evaluation, divorce, break up what ever any body wants to call it.
Can't you Husband just glance have conversation etc with out being evaluated on wither or not the other person might be flirting. Isn't he with you. Isn't an insult to him that you don't trust his judgment not to go home with somebody else or have a quickie when you are not in site HMMMMMMMM

And did ever think woman like to get UNDER other woman skin by flirting with their Man. Or get a kick out of starting a an argument with you and your SO. No it never ever crossed a woman mind before to start trouble just for the fun of it :faint:
 
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RoseRed

RoseRed

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Justme2 said:
So what if the other person was flirting with your Husband. Don't you trust HIM? So now it an argument, evaluation, divorce, break up what ever any body wants to call it.
Can't you Husband just glance have conversation etc with out being evaluated on wither or not the other person might be flirting. Isn't he with you. Isn't an insult to him that you don't trust his judgment not to go home with somebody else or have a quickie when you are not in site HMMMMMMMM

And did ever think woman like to get UNDER other woman skin by flirting with their Man. Or get a kick out of starting a an argument with you and your SO. No it never ever crossed a woman mind before to start trouble just for the fun of it :faint:
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bcp

bcp

In My Opinion
LadyWolf said:
It doesn't matter!!! What part of FLIRTING does anyone NOT UNDERSTAND? The purpose of flirting is to get attention. Certain eye contact, body language, etc. People aren't stupid, you know the signs. YOU CAN TELL when your other half is FLIRTING. If you can't...then there is a problem. Talking is talking. If you find someone attractive, and they speak to you and smile, you're gonna smile back because you find them attractive. If you or the other person goes out of their way to speak or make eye contact, then that poses for a red flag. If I'm at a party w/my husband and I zero in on some woman admiring my husband and he doesn't notice or doesn't acknowledge her, then fine. If he notices and I see mutual eye contact or some form of mutual acknowledgment...then that's flirting and it's an insult to me.
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You need to be more secure in your marriage.

I flirt all the time, but its going to be a damn cold day in a normally hot place before I act on it.
and my wife knows this.

The way I see it, if I find someone that is just so perfect that I cant keep my hands off of them, it must mean that I need to divorce my wife and move in with Ms. Perfect. I have yet to meet her. Dont expect I will.

besides, are you aware that not allowing your husband to flirt now and again will only cause him to become gay? its true, I read it on the internet.
 
GWguy

GWguy

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What's wrong with flirting together as a couple? I don't mean with each other, but enjoying the flirting of your SO. Have some fun with it. You're more likely to keep the SO you have. If you get jealous or make demands on an SO that flirting is verboten, the SO is much more likely to do it when you're not looking, especially if they are the flirty type. At least keep it open and honest, and go home with each other smiling at the end of the evening.
 
ICit

ICit

Jam out with ur clam out
Hoover said:
I flirt all the time. In front of my hubby, behind my hubby - who cares. Its my personality. I am a flirt-a-holic. I will flirt with any one of any age, race, color, creed, religion, or nationality. If it gets me what I want - I will flirt to get it.:yahoo:​
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:killingme :yahoo: :smoochy:

(and he doesnt flirt at all does he :whistle:)

I miss you guys
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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bcp said:
I can honestly say that he has never flirted with me.
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That you picked up on. It frequently has to be pointed out to me that someone is flirting with me because I'm not a person who gets those sort of cues. Maybe you're not a person like that either?
 
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