Moved from the Kitten thread
Geek, I sometimes think you (as well as others) hurt the cause. I try to stay positive and not continually berate people regarding rescue, etc. It's hard to know everyone's story. Robin, for example...she's trying to do right by these cats. I don't know her financial situation but I do know what it costs to vet strays and perhaps she's not equipped to deal with that. I mean she has taken them in and tried to do what's right.
Like I said in an earlier post in this thread, I try to stay realistic. I've been thinking a lot about this since last night because I don't feel I really put my thoughts out there as I intended. I'm an animal lover, I try to help animals in any way I can. I think the cause of animal rescue has grown tremendously and made great positive strides but I also think many rescuers are very offputting and condescending. Rather than gaining support, they push people away.
I frequent Petco in Prince Frederick. Most Saturdays, Petco is full of various rescue groups. Loving animals like I do, I usually stop to look and pet the babies and TRY to chat with the various volunteers. I'd say that the majority of the people I try to engage in conversation are aloof and judgmental, almost to the point of being rude.
I stopped yesterday to pet a few kittens. The women holding them barely spoke. I like to talk about the babies I've rescued, that it's hard for me to take any now because of my work schedule, etc. but it's a great thing they're doing They just looked at me...almost as if I was wasting their time. It's not limited to this group, as I've had the same experiences at other rescue events.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I've seen the rescue side first hand. I understand how frustrating it is to see so many animals needing homes and how people can be so thoughtless when it comes to animals. I know there are too many animals, I know people need to spay and neuter their pets, I know about cruelty and on and on..... BUT..attacking people, making nasty comments and practically calling people stupid...people you don't even know..does far more harm for the animals. Rescuers need to educate, understand peoples' situations and work with people rather than drive them away.