vraiblonde said:
The fact is that if you want to get respect, you must give respect.
Like the respect non believers get in this country? Like when Bush senior said atheists should not be citizens nor are they patriots? Like when Pat Robertson (who by the way preaches to over three million people) says "The Constitution of the United States, for instance, is a marvelous document for self-government by the Christian people. But the minute you turn the document into the hands of non-Christian people and atheistic people they can use it to destroy the very foundation of our society. And that's what's been happening."
Here's another Pat quote which shoud be particularly offensive to the ladies out there, "I know this is painful for the ladies to hear, but if you get married, you have accepted the headship of a man, your husband. Christ is the head of the household and the husband is the head of the wife, and that's the way it is, period."
All religion is intolerant, ALL of them, and group selection theory states that group selection will bread intolerance (which it clearly does).
I acknowledge that you say you are not a religious person (and I believe you) however it seems to me that respect, when referring to a religious belief system, is really code word for "if you don't believe then shut the hell up".
Face it, religions (and I am not attacking a single religion here, the plural was intentional) bread intolerance, every religious book with the possible exceptions of the Hindu vedas, is based on group continuity, and most if not all have killed, shunned, or excluded people who refuse to conform to the belief system. It happens to this day.
To assert that it does not happen in this country is, quite frankly, delusional. I am not going to get into a “you started this first” argument, but I will say that respect is a two way street and the “group think” surrounding religion has been around as long as religion itself.
Telling someone homosexuality is wrong based on a biological standpoint (you can’t make babies that way) is one thing. Telling someone homosexuality is wrong because god told me so; which is arguably also a biological statement ( you can’t make “Christian” babies that way) is a completely different animal.
Please don’t think I am attacking you personally, I am not. I am simply trying to make a point.
Oh, and to the little #### that called me gay earlier (and I expect he did because it appears I am defending homosexuals) to him I say. Sir you do not know me, and if you did you would know I am not a homosexual. In fact, they don’t come much more conservative then I. The difference is my morals come from personal conviction and I am allowed to adjust them based on current evidence whereas you, apparently, are not. As yours are constrained by your “set in stone” belief system.