Girlfriend & Her "Male" Friends

[Black-Francis]

box wine and Im not kidding

g-h-e-t-t-o

 

[4d2008]

OMG! I happen to love box wine!

I'm not sure if she could be any more clear with you.

She sees you once a week or so because she wants to have time for her male friends. When she picks out a Christmas tree or needs help with something, she calls one of them instead of you.

If this were going on with some buddy of yours, what would you tell him?

yep,

 

[dn0121]

I don't want to waste my time if she is only looking for someone to be there only when she feels like she has the time.

i believe you have already wasted you're time.

 

[4d2008]

g-h-e-t-t-o

Its still good azz wine I have better stuff but this was free from a party last night so I figure I better empty it first and again, its really good wine.

 

[The Scrambler]

I am clearly not "significant" to her.

 

[MJ]

g-h-e-t-t-o

:shrug:


d-e-c-e-n-t c-h-e-a-p b-u-z-z

 

[Black-Francis]

OMG! I happen to love box wine!

cheap date

 

[toppick08]

OMG! I happen to love box wine!

redneck....

 

[MJ]

Its still good azz wine I have better stuff but this was free from a party last night so I figure I better empty it first and again, its really good wine.

Don't drink screw top wine from Whiskers in Ocean City unless you have K_Jo with you to hold your hair up the next morning.

 

[dn0121]

box wine and Im not kidding

save some for me! I'll be bringing this

 

[MJ]

cheap date

redneck....

Yup!

 

[4d2008]

I am clearly not "significant" to her.

seriously, stop it. Change the game or stop the game. no matter what. You're in a game. Its up to you to make the next set of rules.... Im out...

cheap date

my kinda girl

actually it doesnt matter how much you spend on wine... Ive had some GREAT bottles for 12 bucks.

 

[sweetprincess23]

QUOTE=4d2008;3460801]The money is gone.
If she is "fun" then continue to make it "fun" but LEAVE THE FEELINGS OUT. Dont get played. Play the game as she is playing.
Rule #2 if your in a game, play to win.[/QUOTE]

Whatever you do don't tell her to drop any friends, male or female. I happen to have alot of male friends, I wouldn't do anything with them. Stop giving her money! But... if you feel the need to give it out I have a bank account that won't mind a little extra cash.

 

[dn0121]

seriously, stop it. Change the game or stop the game. no matter what. You're in a game. Its up to you to make the next set of rules.... Im out...

my kinda girl

actually it doesnt matter how much you spend on wine... Ive had some GREAT bottles for 12 bucks.

ever had 2 buck chuck?

 

[Pandora]

Sounds like a pseudo relationship.... RUN - spent far too much time in those and eventually it will wear you completely out. You will never be valued or appreciated in return no matter how hard you try.

 

[4d2008]

save some for me! I'll be bringing this

getting in the shower now, is on her way over now (she got pulled over)

Yup!

 

[toppick08]

Yup!

 

[dn0121]

getting in the shower now, is on her way over now (she got pulled over)

should have told her to turn on her flashers

 

[The Scrambler]

Thanks for everyone opinion. I guess I was starting to gain some form of emotional attatchment which is probably not good if I am not sure of the others feelings for the future.

Thanks again everyone.

 

[toppick08]

Thanks for everyone opinion. I guess I was starting to gain some form of emotional attatchment which is probably not good if I am not sure of the others feelings for the future.

Thanks again everyone.

Man....let her go....take time for yourself, and try again, lots of ladies out there.

Good Luck.