The Scrambler
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I am now challenged with the question of am I codependent. I studied codependency in college and I am challenged with that question for myself. Ironic.
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I'm not really sure what co-dependent means, but you seem to have a bit of low self-esteem.
If you enjoy her company, that's fine. But you should still be playing the field because (here comes a cliche) you'll never find Ms. Right if your mooning after Ms. Wrong.
:shrug:
The Scrambler
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Low self esteem? I am a fantastic man. I have no problem looking at myself in the mirror and saying" Thats the guy I want to be just like"
get4real
U-WISHHH
The way I see it is she is seeing you enough to keep you around in case she needs another loan. I hate to say it that way but she knows if she doesn't see you at all then you will pull away more. She knows you like her and she is keeping you around for a "just in case" moment.
The Scrambler
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I pyne for no one.
The Scrambler
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I don't want to be someones little just in case guy
Well, I say that because you've been doing this with her for eleven months, which is a long time to be fooling around with a girl who's being, um, elusive.
So cool! Go date!
And I'll bet you $10 that the second you find another woman you're interested in, Ms. Wrong will be beating down your door wanting to know "what happened".
$10.
get4real
U-WISHHH
And you shouldn't be. You shouldn't have to wait for someone to come see you when they can squeeze time in for you. You should want to be around someone who "wants" to see you and that's not just seeing you to keep you around.
The Scrambler
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I have everything a guy my age could ever want, I mean everything I could want or need except a decent women who won't try to sell me a line of **** ****
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I think I am being played for a free money bank of america man
Black-Francis
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Hey Dummy.....If you have a girlfriend, then why does it say "handsome single guy" under your name? Maybe she needs to be the one questioning you!
get4real
U-WISHHH
I say YOU need to stop seeing her. Don't call her and when she calls you tell her you have plans. And don't do it to try to make her jealous do it to move on. She is obviously playing games with you. She "needs" to be around you once a week for her security in you, she doesn't "want" to be around you. I would much rather have someone that wants me instead of needs me.
Take it from the women - we know these things. She's messing with you.
Black-Francis
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I love you Vrai! You are so smart!
The Scrambler
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get4real has it nail on the head correct. I call myself single because I have not entered into christian matrimony yet
The Scrambler
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I never did learn how to do or say something to make someone else jealous
get4real
U-WISHHH
The Scrambler
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Vrail, thats why I submitted my question. I knew there was a women out there somewhere that could shed some light on my current situation. Thank you.