Gwendolyn said:Eh, I would do it if I knew the kid was going to a very good home. However i wouldn't use my own eggs. I couldn't deal with a a kid of my very own running around out there.
My husband usually just lets me do what I want. I can't see him say no if I was sure about it.
BadGirl said:If someone close to me were unable to have a child, and asked me to carry one for them, I'd seriously consider doing it for her. Maybe I would, maybe I wouldn't. But I would give it a lot of thoughtful discussion with Bob and other close family members.
However, if there was any hesitation on Bob's part that he wouldn't want me to do it, then I wouldn't.
It has nothing to do with his opinion taking priority over my opinion or the situation. It's just that carrying a child wouldn't just be an impact to me, but to US, and to the dynamics of OUR family. If me carrying someone else's child were to disrupt the harmony that we have, then I'd have to say "no", and focus instead on my own family.
citysherry said:What would make a true husband and father hesitate - other than serious medical risk? Of course, I think you should only do it if you and your husband consider your family complete. I know my husband would want to be part of giving another couple the gift of being a family.
nitwhit3286 said:i have a secret....
nitwhit3286 said:i have a secret....
Cowgirl said:Nit, are you knocked up?
Cowgirl said:Are you a surrogate mother for Juggy's baby?
nitwhit3286 said:oh..he's on here...
Tinkerbell said:I think Q is talking about the person that started this thread.