Help With The Kid..........

[DoWhat]

Is your son a dorky looking dude, thinking that this may be the only pu$$y that he will ever get?

Let him know that she is not the only slutty female out there.

Have him log onto SoMd.com

I'm sure his PM'er would be full quicker than hell, from slutty women here, looking for a good time.

May change his thinking.

 

[kwillia]

I just hope he's smart enough to keep his sausage in a case so that he doesn't end up adding another baby to the mix.

 

[The Dude]

I am looking for help for the kid..........he's 21 and going through a nasty divorce. Unfortunately he married a pathological liar, a cheater and a thief! My husband walked in on her - in OUR HOUSE - fooling around with one of my sons friends....my son walked in on her, naked, IN BED, with his friend.......and he still thinks there is some relationship to salvage!

I know, as a mom, that I should stay out of it and try and just listen to him and let him vent. However, he has a 2 year old and still thinks that he and his wife should work things out for her! This girl is my sons kryptonite!

What do I do??????? Keeping my mouth shut and not saying a word has almost driven me insane! He's my son and I know how much he hurts - but this girl is TRASH~!

Help guys................................

What's her number???
But seriously I think these people live next door to us. It's really a sad situation and I'm sure hard on you son.

 

[witchiepooh 364]

i just wanted to reply to this post....i had a similar situation with my son...although there was no children involved and they were not married...he was infatuated with this girl and no matter what i said he could not help feeling the way he did....i turned it around on him one day and asked him if one of his friends had a girl that was cheating on them and they still were with them what would he tell them? that seemed to do some good.....it took a while but he finally moved on....a lot of it has to do with not having someone ... when someone else comes along he will let go....as a mom it is hard but you can do it......

 

[jetmonkey]

I am looking for help for the kid..........he's 21 and going through a nasty divorce. Unfortunately he married a pathological liar, a cheater and a thief! My husband walked in on her - in OUR HOUSE - fooling around with one of my sons friends....my son walked in on her, naked, IN BED, with his friend.......and he still thinks there is some relationship to salvage!

I know, as a mom, that I should stay out of it and try and just listen to him and let him vent. However, he has a 2 year old and still thinks that he and his wife should work things out for her! This girl is my sons kryptonite!

What do I do??????? Keeping my mouth shut and not saying a word has almost driven me insane! He's my son and I know how much he hurts - but this girl is TRASH~!

Help guys................................

Just Qurious - was she living at your house when you caught her secksing other doodz and did she continue to live there afterwards?

 

[jetmonkey]

After of course he figures out that the kid is really his....If she is sleeping around now, what is to say that she wasn't when the kid was conceived?

I posted a link to a story a while back about the conspiracy between women, health care professionals and the courts in regards to women lying about the paternity of their children. No one commented. I can only assume that means most of the women on here are creepers and most of the men don't want to know :shrug:

 

[jetmonkey]

What's her number???
But seriously I think these people live next door to us. It's really a sad situation and I'm sure hard on you son.

You said hard on.

 

[DoWhat]

....a lot of it has to do with not having someone ... when someone else comes along he will let go....as a mom it is hard but you can do it......

Didn't I already say that?

Have him log onto SoMd.com

I'm sure his PM'er would be full quicker than hell, from slutty women here, looking for a good time.

May change his thinking.

Did you read my post?

 

[gigi6]

Thanks guys! To clarify....son was away at a school - I was away for the weekend - his dad walked in while she was staying...........oooooooooopppppppps!

I have stayed out of it so far - but finally told him, I cannot hear anymore. Damn straight he needs to man up and get his child away from her. At 21, I guess he's scared..............Most people would be. But, as I said to him the one time when he asked my opinion point blank "what wouldn't I do for my child?"

Thanks guys.........I'm feeling better. And as far as paternity? Yeah - she's his.....in Maryland, if the parents aren't married (at the time of the baby's birth, they weren't - they are now, tho) they do a paternity test. And I might add - this is the most wonderful child God has put on the face of the earth. OF course, I'm the grandmother so I'm a little biased!

 

[Kain99]

Thanks guys! To clarify....son was away at a school - I was away for the weekend - his dad walked in while she was staying...........oooooooooopppppppps!

I have stayed out of it so far - but finally told him, I cannot hear anymore. Damn straight he needs to man up and get his child away from her. At 21, I guess he's scared..............Most people would be. But, as I said to him the one time when he asked my opinion point blank "what wouldn't I do for my child?"

Thanks guys.........I'm feeling better. And as far as paternity? Yeah - she's his.....in Maryland, if the parents aren't married (at the time of the baby's birth, they weren't - they are now, tho) they do a paternity test. And I might add - this is the most wonderful child God has put on the face of the earth. OF course, I'm the grandmother so I'm a little biased!

Lets focus on baby for now Mom! Love her with all of your heart and love him. This has got to be the most painful thing he has ever encountered.

You're doing real good!

 

[Rael]

Lets focus on baby for now Mom! Love her with all of your heart and love him. This has got to be the most painful thing he has ever encountered.

You're doing real good!

Agreed, focus/love on baby/child. Good luck.

 

[vraiblonde]

I have stayed out of it so far - but finally told him, I cannot hear anymore.

Sounds like you're doing fine and just wanted to vent about the situation, which I don't blame you for.

 

[LexiGirl75]

I always think a men's group would help in situations like this. Sometimes a support group not consisting of friends and family (those we can't bare to judge us) is more productive in helping people see the light and empower to release themselves and move forward.

For a man, this can't be easy to go through or accept defeat that his boys won (for a lack of better term). It's the testosterone and competition. I believe him when he says he wants to work it out for the baby because aside from being the mother of his child she doesn't have any more value.

Best wishes.

 

[DoWhat]

I always think a men's group would help in situations like this. Sometimes a support group not consisting of friends and family (those we can't bare to judge us) is more productive in helping people see the light and empower to release themselves and move forward.

For a man, this can't be easy to go through or accept defeat that his boys won (for a lack of better term). It's the testosterone and competition.

You really are different, aren't you?

 

[vraiblonde]

You really are different, aren't you?

We typically like to use the term "unique".

 

[DoWhat]

We typically like to use the term "unique".

Oh.
You be da boss.
So o ta.

 

[Sadysue]

He's a big boy, let him learn. Divorce is already underway, as you said. Sooner or later he'll figure it out. As others have said, just be there for him. But be a good listener, not a preacher. When it becomes clear to him, it will be because he figured it out, not because anyone told him.

Anything you say or do is liable to blow up in your face. If he asks for your opinion, sure, give it to him. Otherwise, just love him and be supportive. It's all you CAN do.

 

[sockgirl77]

And as far as paternity? Yeah - she's his.....in Maryland, if the parents aren't married (at the time of the baby's birth, they weren't - they are now, tho) they do a paternity test.

Where in the hell did you get that info from?

 

[LexiGirl75]

You really are different, aren't you?

Yes. Always and forever.

 

[LexiGirl75]

We typically like to use the term "unique".