I wasn't in a "clique" when I was in school. My friends were all over the place, from brains to nerds to jocks to stoners. I was very much then like I am today - it took me a long time to grow into my personality.
Wow, same here... sinner to saint
Now as to the thread subject, I was picked on terribly by this guy in middle school and a few years ago, he got on FB telling us he was going to be doing an internet radio show interview. I tuned in and he sat there and told the lady interviewing him how *HE* had been picked on all his life. I never saw that; all I remember is that he was the jerk who picked.
A few months later the subject came up while I was out with friends and many said when they heard him say that, they almost fell on the floor. Apparently he was a dick to many growing up. The sad part is this guy is a genius. He seriously has a genius IQ either near or over 200 but doesn't have one lick of common damn sense.
It is hard to hold a grudge against a genius who lacks common sense, 10 or 11 kids and 5 ex wives who is a constantly unemployed with a PhD. Seems like karma did him well. :shrug: