How do I get him to take care of his son??????????

[Black-Francis]

Afraid he might end up like you?

maybe

 

[JULZ]

have you had Safeway cake? OMG white cake w/ frosting to die for

Did you see that ransom isnt the only one w/

 

[JULZ]

owes me over eight thousand dollars.

around $4,000 behind on his Child Support.

How did the arrears double in less than two weeks?

 

[JULZ]

But WHY did he move? I believe all states have the new hire registry. So is he not working at all? But even if they find him and attach his wages it's not going to matter. Last month I sat in child support court. Their was a man there that owed $106,000 dollars... know what they did? Told him he had to pay a purge amount of a couple hundred bucks within less than 2 months. That goes to show how much the system sucks. How does someone even owe that much? Because they let him off time and time again. Is it frustrating? yes... but not much you can do about it. So even if they find him it doesn't mean you will get anything. I have had 15 court dates in the past 3 years and it doesn't do anything.

I do understand your frustration over him not supporting your son. I just don't agree with the grandparents issue and your son's father talking to him.

Yes, we all know the system sucks. They don't track down phone numbers or trace restricted calls, it just doesn't happen. They wait for the registry to come in, verify employment with last known employers and send out letters for you to update your account or if you have any information about the non-custodial parent to contact their office. They are useless.

So having said that and for those in the system with arrears building, do you think this operation is better? Child Support Network---The Child Support Collection Professionals I've personally talked to a rep and am told they "hunt" (his words) these deadbeats down, they harass family members, etc. First $500 collected is their fee and the rest collected of course is paid to you.

Thoughts?

 

[daisycreek]

Yes, we all know the system sucks. They don't track down phone numbers or trace restricted calls, it just doesn't happen. They wait for the registry to come in, verify employment with last known employers and send out letters for you to update your account or if you have any information about the non-custodial parent to contact their office. They are useless.

Perhaps, those are the only tools they are given? I am sure with the budget the state will not pay for call tracing services

 

[jetmonkey]

I would try using more question marks.