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I don't think Spectre was talking about being a dominatrix.
Kids are kinna like hiring a Dominatrix,. You didn't cry when it went in, don't cry when it comes out..
I don't think Spectre was talking about being a dominatrix.
It's done mathmaticly for basic CS, his income vers her income, how many days child is with each and so one.
Just what do you think it costs to buy or rent a two or three bedroom home in a safe community in Southern Maryland?
Child support is just one piece of raising a child...
And again, if she is doing her job as a parent, what businesses is it of his what she does with her money?
Not only is she raising said children she is entitled to have a life also.
Men are at a disadvantage.
WRONG! According to MD law, CS is calculated based on income period! Number of days does not come into play unless the child(ren) spends so many days with the non-custodial parent.
Are you talking about the child's portion or are you expecting the father to cover the mother's rent/mortgage too?
Agreed!!
I wouldn't give a rat's azz what she does with HER money. I DO care about what she does with MY money that is supposed to go towards caring for the child(ren)
Both are raising the children if both parents are playing their role accordingly. And you are correct. She is entitled to a life. As long as it does not come at the expense of the child(ren)
If I may ...
...... wear a condom.
how can I cleanly tell this tale ....
a friend of my got pregnant with her 1st in the 90's when her bf did his thing on her chest, and then preceded to smear it around with his hand, including the now covered hand down between her legs
Just how do you know what a ex spouse spends money on ? How do you know it was " YOUR MONEY " just because you think it's your money, doesn't make it so.
The problem is that so many non custodial parents don't pull there fair share, and complain about what the other parent supposedly does with the money..
Those that complain about what the ex does with " THERE MONEY " need to step up and become the custodial parent..
And if you think that a grand a month is a huge amount of money for the man ( generally the bread winner by leaps and bounds ) to pay you are living in never never land.
how can I cleanly tell this tale ....
a friend of my got pregnant with her 1st in the 90's when her bf did his thing on her chest, and then preceded to smear it around with his hand, including the now covered hand down between her legs
Yep, I thought it was funny that a girl couldn't get pregnant from anal...
If you are an involved non-custodial parent then it is pretty easy to tell if the monies being provided for CS are being used properly or not.
Could be easily alleviated with an audit.
You say that like it is an option for everyone just because you were able to get it done. In MOST cases, this is not the fact. Change of custody is not easy at all from the mother to the father in most cases.
By making this statement you are basically admitting that it is the man's sole responsibility to be the earner. Aren't the parents in it equally when raising the child(ren)? Why does mom get a financial break? The friend I referenced in my initial response has applied 2 times for custody and has been denied by the courts. Courts say it is better for kids to be with mom even though mom barely earns and the home (which he left) is falling to pieces. So, why isn't mom held accountable for her end of the finances?