I jumped the gun!

[Pete]

Originally posted by sleuth14
I'm an excellent judge of character. I have a knack for being able to spot someone who is not themself as well.

Me too, except for my 2 ex wives.

 

[migtig]

Originally posted by sleuth14
I'm an excellent judge of character. I have a knack for being able to spot someone who is not themself as well.

Obviously

 

[migtig]

Originally posted by Vince


Just date the guy and have some fun! Quit worrying about a relationship. HAVE FUN! If you happen to start forming a serious relationship great! If not, find someone else. At the very least you'll have another friend. And you can't have too many of those.

Vince he doesn't want to date - he wants nookie and then to hang out with her occasionaly - which means hellos exchanged in a bar

 

[Blondie76]

Quick question - has anyone had a long term relationship with someone they met in a bar? Married them possibly?

 

[sleuth]

As in my other thread, I give up. :silly:

 

[jazz lady]

Originally posted by Blondie76
Quick question - has anyone had a long term relationship with someone they met in a bar? Married them possibly?

We've been together 21 years now - 18 of them married.

 

[Athena1078]

ok, I am not just bashing him cause he doesn't want a committment.. I have always said that I wouldn't date someone shorter than I... I have made exceptions for the past 2 guys and it didn't work, therefore, I need to stick to my height requirement. I don't neccessarily want a commitment, but I don't want a bunch of Friends with Benefits either. I

 

[Pete]

Originally posted by Athena1078
I need to stick to my height requirement. I

Your right, height is an excellent indicator of a quality person.

 

[Blondie76]

Originally posted by Athena1078
ok, I am not just bashing him cause he doesn't want a committment.. I have always said that I wouldn't date someone shorter than I... I have made exceptions for the past 2 guys and it didn't work, therefore, I need to stick to my height requirement. I don't neccessarily want a commitment, but I don't want a bunch of Friends with Benefits either. I

I kinda feel the same way Athena, I'm 5'9". I definately like guys taller than me. I have dated guys shorter than me though. I don't really judge a person by their height, I'm just more attracted to tall guys.

 

[pixiegirl]

I met my ex husband in Denny's at 3 a.m. That would probably explain a lot too.

 

[migtig]

I like short guys

 

[RoseRed]

Originally posted by Blondie76
Quick question - has anyone had a long term relationship with someone they met in a bar? Married them possibly?

I was the bartender, he was the persistent customer. Been together almost 10 years and married for 8.

 

[Blondie76]

Well I'm glad to see that some love connections were made at a bar. I seem to be a magnet for jerks.

 

[migtig]

Originally posted by kwillia

That too

 

[Ken King]

Originally posted by Blondie76
Quick question - has anyone had a long term relationship with someone they met in a bar? Married them possibly?

Yep, met her 13 years ago and married her 7 years ago (after living together for 5 years).

 

[JabbaJawz]

Originally posted by Blondie76
I definately like guys taller than me. I have dated guys shorter than me though. I don't really judge a person by their height, I'm just more attracted to tall guys.

Me too. I'm 5'9" also!

 

[Pete]

Originally posted by Blondie76
Well I'm glad to see that some love connections were made at a bar. I seem to be a magnet for jerks.

You just need to start siting in the "no-jerk" section. Don't get it confused with the "no-jerking" section it is totally different.

 

[vraiblonde]

So what's the problem? When you want sex, you give him a buzz (no pun intended). At least he was honest about it - he could've strung you along for awhile until it became clear that he wasn't a lifer.

One of my girlfriends always went after the committment-phobes - on purpose. Then she'd get bent when they wanted more. She was like, "You get 'em in bed, everyone has a good time, then they want to talk and sh*t. If I wanted to talk, I'd call a girlfriend. "

 

[vraiblonde]

"Do your job, then get the hell out!"

 

[RoseRed]

Originally posted by dpete2q
You just need to start siting in the "no-jerk" section. Don't get it confused with the "no-jerking" section it is totally different.