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libertytyranny

libertytyranny

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Nanny Pam said:
Has anyone ever had the hots for their fantasy guy? Movie star? Football player, ex boyfriend? race car driver? Whoever.
OK....now....if you could do him and get away with it, would you?
You ARE in love with your husband, and you don't really want to hurt him in any way, but this is your fantasy guy!! :hot:
OK, now lets say that it is *once & done* kind of thing. No one will ever find out. EVER. Are you gonna do him?

Be honest. Remember....no one will find out, ever.
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I have an agreement with SO. If Johnny Depp ever offers (or is asleep near me) I'm taking it. He agreed if he has the same deal with Megan Fox. WE shook on it. :killingme
 
lnmarsh

lnmarsh

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Nanny Pam said:
Has anyone ever had the hots for their fantasy guy? Movie star? Football player, ex boyfriend? race car driver? Whoever.
OK....now....if you could do him and get away with it, would you?
You ARE in love with your husband, and you don't really want to hurt him in any way, but this is your fantasy guy!! :hot:
OK, now lets say that it is *once & done* kind of thing. No one will ever find out. EVER. Are you gonna do him?

Be honest. Remember....no one will find out, ever.
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Interesting point.

I want to sit here and say that I wouldnt act on it; that I'd stay faithful. I think that cheating is extremely disrespectful and I think that on principle alone, I would not cheat. But is that because I know myself and I'd end up telling him, or because my morals are that high?

But then again, Ive never been faced with the opportunity :lol:
 
lnmarsh

lnmarsh

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libertytyranny said:
I have an agreement with SO. If Johnny Depp ever offers (or is asleep near me) I'm taking it. He agreed if he has the same deal with Megan Fox. WE shook on it. :killingme
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:yay: Actually come to think of it... SO and I had a similar conversation. Only replace Megan Fox with Jennifer Aniston (sp?) and replace Johnny Depp with... well, a slew of other men. Actually I think Johnny made the list :killingme

But then again, thats something we'll never be faced with.
 
vraiblonde

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Nanny Pam said:
Are you gonna do him?
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Nope. #1, I'm not a cheater. #2, I don't have a sexual fantasy guy. And #3, if I did and it was some stranger I didn't even know but just thought was hot, I'd get him in the rack and he'd probably be some dud idiot loser, and then I'd be pissed.

Not worth the hassle. Plus I hate it when reality kills a perfectly good fantasy.
 
rpexie

rpexie

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I would say no, guilt would ruin the experience anyway. WHY? Has anyone seen Matthew Macfayden or Rivers Cuomo walking around southern MD? :jameo:
 
Nanny Pam

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rpexie said:
I would say no, guilt would ruin the experience anyway.
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Exactly the way I feel. The guilt would kill me.

I know my hubby lusts over JLo and Kim Kardashian, and he knows I lust over Tony Stewart. But that's all it could ever be....just lust.

I have never cheated on anyone. Even back 100 years ago during my high school crushes. I was never a cheater.

that show, "Cheaters" cracks me up, though! :lmao:
 
Pete

Pete

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Nanny Pam said:
Exactly the way I feel. The guilt would kill me.

I know my hubby lusts over JLo and Kim Kardashian, and he knows I lust over Tony Stewart. But that's all it could ever be....just lust.

I have never cheated on anyone. Even back 100 years ago during my high school crushes. I was never a cheater.

that show, "Cheaters" cracks me up, though! :lmao:
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Tell him to keep his paws of my Kim. :mad:
 
LadyWolf

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It would depend on what the lie is as to how bad the repercussions are. I hate being lied to, but people do it all the time and sometimes just because they want to lie. However, over time, it just wears on a person and the trust is gone and difficult to repair. It creates insecurities, mistrust, lack of intimacy, etc. etc. It is just BAD all the way around unless you don't give a damn. Therefore, that whole idea of lying because your afraid of losing them is a load of crap!!!
 
ArkRescue

ArkRescue

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I agree - let me find out you're lying and you're gone, period. High standards? Not really, just want back what I give.

LadyWolf said:
It would depend on what the lie is as to how bad the repercussions are. I hate being lied to, but people do it all the time and sometimes just because they want to lie. However, over time, it just wears on a person and the trust is gone and difficult to repair. It creates insecurities, mistrust, lack of intimacy, etc. etc. It is just BAD all the way around unless you don't give a damn. Therefore, that whole idea of lying because your afraid of losing them is a load of crap!!!
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FromTexas

FromTexas

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Nickel said:
But if they really cared about what you think of them, they'd probably have done their best to avoid whatever bad thing they were doing. Are we talking "No, those jeans don't make your butt look huge", or "No, I didn't sleep with the babysitter"?
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How about, "No, I didn't sleep with the babysitter after complaining to her about how you look in your fatty mom jeans"?

I think we need to be specific here.
 
jazz lady

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Christy said:
Speaking from experience, I think this whole sentiment is merely an attempt to rationalize chitty behavior and make oneself not feel like such a loser for accepting it. :shrug:

So yes, Danielle's character is full of crap and should be flogged for promoting such silliness.
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:dingding: Speaking from experience, this is so very true. There are little white lies that are forgiveable and understandable but the truly horrendous "lie at all costs to save my butt because I know I'm effing up and am too much of a coward to admit it" are not something I can accept nor forgive. Been there, done there, got the divorce to prove it. :lol: :ohwell:
 
FromTexas

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vraiblonde said:
Mmmm, yeah, you probably better lie about that.
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Okay, one down - I have a few more to go...

"Honey, those aren't warts, they are age spots on my junk - don't you know this happens to all men?" - Good lie or bad lie?

"John was just naked because he spilled coffee on his clothes while we were trying to fix the dishwasher. When we were taking them to be washed, we tripped on the stairs and I landed on top of him. The force was enough to throw my clothes off" - good or bad?

"Six inches"
 
FromTexas

FromTexas

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jazz lady said:
Totally unforgiveable, as you well know. :razz:
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Its just because she told me she couldn't handle more than six. I shouldn't have lied. You would think I speared her liver the way she screamed. :ohwell:






(yes, I know where you are going to quote and take this already...)

:nono:
 
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