eclark said:
I know plenty of people with a college education looking for a job.
Me too.
eclark said:
So what do you do? when your out here in the real world and reality sets in, that your not a child and your parents don't have to take care of you, in some cases some people don't have parents or even a parent to take care of them in the first place.
What would I do?
I'll tell you exactly what I DID, when I lived in the "real world" and the reality set in that I wasn't a child, and my parents would no longer support me.
I went out and got me a crappy job.
Cleaning shitty toilets. Getting puked on, and mopping up puke. Cleaning off skanky-ass telephones that smelled like beer and pickles and vomit. Cleaning up blood.
It wasn't a good job. I hated it - the hours sucked, I was around people I didn't like, and it didn't pay all the bills that I needed paid.
So, I went and got a second crappy-ass job.
Delivering pizzas to trailer parks and slums, risking my neck and ruining my car.
There was one point in my life - about two years worth of my early 20's - when I had
FOUR jobs at the same time. Weekdays, I did one job, Weeknights, I had another job - weekend days I had a job, and weekend nights I had another job.
NONE of these jobs paid SQUAT. But together I managed to get my bills paid, and I didn't have to sell anything measured in grams.
I spent my off-shifts reading computer books. Every free waking moment, I was learning how to program computers, and how to hook up networks, and how to design websites, and how to write assembly level code.
Then I found a job programming computers. I went to my interview clean-shaven, no visible tatoos, and without a ballcap side-ways on my head, and without my pants hanging around my knees. And I got the job, amazingly enough.
Then I quit two of my other jobs until I got an even better job, and could support myself with a one single job.
It took effort, and it took nearly 10 years - and I had to eat a lot of ####.
But I managed to work my way up from living alone in a crappy rent-controlled tenement to buying a house and supporting a bus full of screaming children.
Nobody gave me a goddam thing. I had to TAKE it.
That's what I'd do.
eclark said:
So What do you do? when your hungry or your little sister or brother or son or daughter is hungry and you've applied to fast food and still don't get hired or your already working 1 fast food job that don't pay the bills, but you still trying to be legit and look for a better job
Try to get a second crappy job, or a third or a fourth. They don't have to be good jobs, but together they will take care of business.
And while you're doing that, you can educate yourself, and look for something better, and when you finally DO get something better, you can quit a job or two.
That's what I'd do.
eclark said:
No body dreams of being a drug dealer despite what people might think.
The "gangsta" lifestyle is not only condoned, it is absolutely GLORIFIED. I think there are plenty of people who become a drug dealer because it's COOL, and gives them plenty of money for bling -
not because they're forced into it.
I grew up in Baltimore - and I lived on worse streets than you. I moved down here, and I grew up some more - I wasn't forced into it.