Is your spouse secretly gay/lesbian?

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StraightWife

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Homesick said:
:huggy: Feel bad for you. So sorry.....
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I think I am going to start a movement to expose these types of men - it is really sickening and sad to see how many there are! ladies - check the personal ads for yourselves and keep an eye out if you are confused about your relationship and just can't seem to figure it out...but be careful if you are the type who believes ignorance is bliss....
 
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Hank said:
She turned him ghey... keep up!
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Keep telling yourself that your gayness is our fault and that all guys like to play Naked POW with their GI Joe.

A friend of my step-daughter's had her dad "come out" when she was around 14 or so. Everyone lived through it...I mean, you know, after the initial shock and family upheaval and all.
 
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I am searching for a therapist in this area with experience with this type of thing - may have to head north ! Hell, I should just go back to school to become one! damn they charge big bucks
 
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StraightWife

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Homesick said:
I know, but still confusing because of the way this thread was going. :lol:
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wanted it to be helpful to other people who may have similar experience or concerns....ie - signs, characteristics, behaviors, etc....the mind can play terrible tricks on you, and good to have feedback from others. certainly is much easier to disbelieve something
 
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StraightWife said:
wanted it to be helpful to other people who may have similar experience or concerns....ie - signs, characteristics, behaviors, etc....the mind can play terrible tricks on you, and good to have feedback from others. certainly is much easier to disbelieve something
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Understand.
 
PJay

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StraightWife said:
wanted it to be helpful to other people who may have similar experience or concerns....ie - signs, characteristics, behaviors, etc....the mind can play terrible tricks on you, and good to have feedback from others. certainly is much easier to disbelieve something
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How many years invested?

Children?

Is he aware you know?
 
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StraightWife

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Hank said:
Honey...you better worry about what is being dropped on your man's chest....:lmao:
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haha -darling, I don't worry about it anymore - for one, he isn't really "my" man, nor is he my "man" anymore! he never was and now I know he never could have been, and never would have been if I had a clue -
 
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Homesick said:
How many years invested?

Children?

Is he aware you know?
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more than 1 decade, yes have children, and...I think he knows I know....he hasn't admitted anything, and I don't think he ever will - I don't know if he wants to be gay and hides it, or if he wants to NOT be gay and fights it - does that make sense? I will never know that, and really is not my issue to solve.
 
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vraiblonde

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StraightWife said:
never would have been if I had a clue -
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Are you honestly trying to tell us that you didn't know he was gay before you married him? That you didn't think there was something a bit off? I'm assuming you weren't a virgin on your wedding night and had something else to compare the sex to.

That's a real question: did you seriously not suspect at least?
 
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