Is your spouse secretly gay/lesbian?

StraightWife

New Member
Are you honestly trying to tell us that you didn't know he was gay before you married him? That you didn't think there was something a bit off? I'm assuming you weren't a virgin on your wedding night and had something else to compare the sex to.

That's a real question: did you seriously not suspect at least?

I had no clue -thought he had anger issues, or thought he was messing around with another woman, but I don't think anyone who knows him would ever guess this either. Sex was fine for many many years. he was in a rush to get married, thought his "interest" in shopping with me was just his being polite and sincere to do what a woman wants to do, etc. - but then, over time, and looking back, I think he like to shop more than I did!
 

Hank

my war
I had no clue -thought he had anger issues, or thought he was messing around with another woman, but I don't think anyone who knows him would ever guess this either. Sex was fine for many many years. he was in a rush to get married, thought his "interest" in shopping with me was just his being polite and sincere to do what a woman wants to do, etc. - but then, over time, and looking back, I think he like to shop more than I did!

Oh crap! I shopped for groceries today! Does that mean?!?! :jameo:
 

vraiblonde

Board Mommy
PREMO Member
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I had no clue -thought he had anger issues, or thought he was messing around with another woman, but I don't think anyone who knows him would ever guess this either. Sex was fine for many many years. he was in a rush to get married, thought his "interest" in shopping with me was just his being polite and sincere to do what a woman wants to do, etc. - but then, over time, and looking back, I think he like to shop more than I did!

I know a couple of gay men who tried to go the hetero route. The general consensus is that, although they could perform for the most part, they didn't like to....how to put this nicely? Get their hands sticky. Or their mouth.

Whenever some guy mentions that he doesn't like to do "that", I know immediately that he's gay.

What makes you think your husband is gay?
 

StraightWife

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I know a couple of gay men who tried to go the hetero route. The general consensus is that, although they could perform for the most part, they didn't like to....how to put this nicely? Get their hands sticky. Or their mouth.

Whenever some guy mentions that he doesn't like to do "that", I know immediately that he's gay.

What makes you think your husband is gay?

the personal ad along with a photo attached....(like you said - these guys should be more careful where they take their self portraits....)
 
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