Isn't This Kinda Cart Before The Horse?

littlelady

God bless the USA
I don't see a :sarcasm: smilie in your post; so, thank you.

I'm happy l.l., however, the buyer's remorse is setting in now, kinda. This is being fueled by the "incorrect" way I went about getting my new wheels.
I F'd up there. I didn't say a word to anybody at home; I just went and did it. I did however, tell a family friend; but not anyone in the house; what I wanted and what I was doing. I'm halfway afraid that this is going to cause a rift in a friendship; 'You knew D was going to do this and neither of you told ME?' I heard everything.....'This is not a good time right now,' 'Why didn't you trust us enough to tell US what you were doing?!' (To me, this is not about not trusting anybody at home, about anything). And, I can't forget, 'Didn't you learn anything from the last time you bought a car without letting anybody know anything?!'

I get home around 7 last night; after having left around 11 in the morning, to find the Yellow Pages open to "Hospitals."
"You were gone ALL day!" "We didn't know where you were!" "We called your cell and you didn't answer!" (You turned it off, didn't you!) "So, we just started calling hospitals!" Followed by every other extreme unknown. So, what should have been a feel good experience turned into a not-so-much experience. MY fault.....I know.....

No, I wasn't being sarcastic. :lol: I think it is great you were so intent on doing your research to get your new car. And, what I have gathered from reading the rest of this thread is that you are intent on taking care of your family and doing the right thing for them as well. What ever is comfortable for you. Family first; we are only here for a short time in the scheme of things. Don't let anyone ever bring you down; especially the supposedly nice guys on this forum. Always follow your heart, DKP. You are doing great! :huggy:
 

Gilligan

#*! boat!
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what I have gathered from reading the rest of this thread is that you are intent on taking care of your family and doing the right thing for them as well. :

What I gathered is that he is an adult male still living at home and treated like a child..and accepting that.

It happens.
 
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