MMDad
Lem Putt
Yep. I broke up with a girl the "right way" one time. Never again. If you break up nicely it makes them like you more and try to win you back.
If you make them hate you, they feel happy to have gotten away.
It has come to my attention...
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Yep. I broke up with a girl the "right way" one time. Never again. If you break up nicely it makes them like you more and try to win you back.
If you make them hate you, they feel happy to have gotten away.
Okay, so there is a practical reason for why guys do this, and it even makes sense (in a weird guy sort of way). Thank you! Finally an answer to the riddle.
And this is interesting as well because women tend to want to stay friendly with their former beaus, even if they have no intention of ever hooking back up with them again. I think most women want an amicable split, and everyone to remain friends.
Guys want the nuclear option, over and out.
Interesting.
Great question.
Maybe it's all break up jerkiness, from leaving the toilet seat up to snarly moods to sleeping with other women.
:shrug:
Toxick
Splat
No more interesting than faking an orgasm.
Men have their weird things.
Women have their weird things.
Toxick
Splat
And this phenomenon never ceases to amaze me.
On 2 levels.
I have never had any interest or desire to be friends with any ex-girlfriend ever. I don't even like to wave to them from across a crowded room, much less chat on the phone or something. Once the gate is closed, it's dead to me. Why should I pretend to care what she has to say after that? So it's hard for me to fathom a mindset where you want to stay friends with people whose heart you've broken.
On a more abstract level, women always want to be friends with their ex-boyfriends... however women are extremely jealous creatures who get all possessive and feline when their man sniffs around an old flame. Women should know that if they remain friends with an ex-boyfriend, his next girlfriend is going to have an attitude it.
Women fake orgasms for one of two reasons:
A) it's not happening and they don't want to hurt your feelings; or
B) you're taking too long and they're starting to think about laundry and that proposal they need to have done tomorrow, and they want to hurry you along.
Translation: Once I no longer want to have sex with you, you cease to hold my interest on any level.
LaserFocused
New Member
if a female has 2 fake it, she`s with the wrong guy from go street. no sense in just goin thru the motions. seems sum of y`ll have sum serious issues. I can`t say it any plainer. geese
All She Wants to Do is Dance. that`ll work temporarily.) scru the typos
Damn, I`ll leave it @ that 4 now. Damn Shame, also described as
"What a Waste" beach is open!!!!!
Meanwhile.... I don`t mind Waitin 4 the rite Woman
& I do have a way not just with words also. I`m Bhavin.
4 y`all that`ll dwell on yr past, u`ll never make it in the future. evry1 has a past. ya just let that chit go..............smart, or u`ll never survive!!!!
huh?
Toxick
Splat
Oh.. I know why they do it.
It still boggles my mind due to the possible ramifications.
And it's a deception.
SG_Player1974
New Member
While this phenomenon is interesting... let's explore a counter point phenomenon.
Why is it that women tend to get fatter when they finally do rope in a man but, as soon as they get rid of or lose him, they are right back on the treadmill or in the gym. Isn't this counter productive to the end result?
Don't hate on my perceptions. Beauty and looks are thee #1 thing that attracts you to a mate. I will take insults from everyone who ever walked into a room, while looking for a mate, and said to themselves "WOW... I bet that one has a great personality!!"
Why is it that women tend to get fatter when they finally do rope in a man but, as soon as they get rid of or lose him, they are right back on the treadmill or in the gym. Isn't this counter productive to the end result?
Don't hate on my perceptions. Beauty and looks are thee #1 thing that attracts you to a mate. I will take insults from everyone who ever walked into a room, while looking for a mate, and said to themselves "WOW... I bet that one has a great personality!!"
Toxick
Splat
Well, if your wife is hot, the first two can quite possibly be the truth.
I've never even heard of a guy -- or a woman -- even pretend to like working around the house. Maybe yardwork and stuff can be fun (or at least relaxing), but I don't know a single person on the face of the earth who likes to vacuum, pick up stinky socks or wash the dishes.
I don't pretend to enjoy working around the house. I do it only because it's better than living in filth.
And beer.
kom526
They call me ... Sarcasmo
libertytyranny
Dream Stealer
I dunno about that..maybe I am instantly interested in someone who is attractive to me...but there is such a thing as too attractive (translation: they are probably an ahole) and there has been many times where I have passed over a more conventionally "attractive" person..for one that looks like more fun, is funnier, or looks like they are interesting. The fun thing is powerful. If I walk in a room and see a super attractive guy who is sitting.
staring at his phone and another guy of average attractiveness who is reading an interesting looking book, has on a polka dotted shirt, or petting a puppy...that is the one I will likely go talk to.
And wanna know why we get skinny when we break up? To make you guys mad....not really to attract another man.
Toxick
Splat
And wanna know why we get skinny when we break up? To make you guys mad....not really to attract another man.
This actually comes as no surprise to me.
libertytyranny
Dream Stealer
But it doesn't stop you from being annoyed though..does it?
Ex was pissed when we broke up and I bought some crest whitestrips..(I have very nice teeth..wifey's are busted
) he kept sayin "theyre so white" when I met him to get my stuff 
SG_Player1974
New Member
And wanna know why we get skinny when we break up? To make you guys mad....not really to attract another man.
Actually, if we are already broken up, you are not making me mad at all? In fact, I was more mad when you let yourself go when we were together! After we are already broken up, I could care less about what you looked like.
If anything, you are going to get a reputation as the "Relationship Rotund/Skinny Single."
Its kind of a Yin-Yang thing!
