Bonehead
Well-Known Member
not sure exactly how I feel about this statement
Just ask her she will tell you what to think !!!
It's not you It's me.......
- Thread starter Mojo
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Just ask her she will tell you what to think !!!
4d2008
New Member
The :fixed: comment in the other thread debunks anything lovey in here.it means you may not be perfect, but you are perfect for mec'mon im trying to be lovey!!!!!
We need to talk.
kvj21075
Meow
The :fixed: comment in the other thread debunks anything lovey in here.
We need to talk.
your talks take too long, lets finish this now.......
youre right, i am wrong, you are perfect, i big stupid, you are tall, i am small, you make better food, i make edible food, now ill go wait at home to receive my punishment
Beta84
They're out to get us
what, you don't like lotion?
4d2008
New Member
your talks take too long, lets finish this now.......
youre right, i am wrong, you are perfect, i big stupid, you are tall, i am small, you make better food, i make edible food, now ill go wait at home to receive my punishment
(are you really going home, cause Id sooooo leave work this early) lol.
4d2008
New Member
Beta84
They're out to get us
i think there's a thread in chit chat you need to look at!
Oh and my contribution to this thread is the only time I ever got that line was in the "I'm having some mental issues right now and can't be in a relationship but maybe we can get back together later." I think the mental issues part was true but we definitely never got back together
kvj21075
Meow
(are you really going home, cause Id sooooo leave work this early) lol.
no
maybe leave at 130
but the lotion was for you?
what did u think it was for????
4d2008
New Member
Its a Poll not a discusion... You can get your results by looking at the top of the page..Get out of this thread you #### tards, you are ruining it
and :SLAM:
Mojo
New Member
Its a Poll not a discusion... You can get your results by looking at the top of the page..
and :SLAM:
Beta84
They're out to get us
you're brutal though. alot of chicks seem to like having an out that is easy because they'd feel bad otherwise. oh did i mention that one time it was used on me, i got dumped by TEXT MESSAGE?!? That one was a real winner!
you're brutal though. alot of chicks seem to like having an out that is easy because they'd feel bad otherwise. oh did i mention that one time it was used on me, i got dumped by TEXT MESSAGE?!? That one was a real winner!
It's easier to just be brutally honest than to be wussified about the situation. This way there is no sending of mixed signals. But that is just me.
Beta84
They're out to get us
you mean how the "it's not you, it's me" speech can have a guy attempting to get back with the chick for days, weeks, or months causing a bunch of stupid and unnecessary drama because the woman can't just tell it like it is?
you mean how the "it's not you, it's me" speech can have a guy attempting to get back with the chick for days, weeks, or months causing a bunch of stupid and unnecessary drama because the woman can't just tell it like it is?
Depends on the guy and yes that statement can cause a bunch of
if the guy doesn't get it
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kris31280
Guest
I've used it both ways... but basically what "It's not you, it's me..." really means is "I've got some serious trust issues and I don't think I can get over that enough to trust you because you've not given me a compelling enough reason to try."
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CalvertNewbie
Guest
i think there's a thread in chit chat you need to look at!
Oh and my contribution to this thread is the only time I ever got that line was in the "I'm having some mental issues right now and can't be in a relationship but maybe we can get back together later." I think the mental issues part was true but we definitely never got back together
Well, that was definitely her, not you. Well, unless she was trying to blame you for her mental issues, then it WAS you.
I've never used that line. I'm not one for sugar coating things. If the truth hurts, oh well. I know, aren't I just a ray of sunshine!
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HouseCat
Guest
So a friend of mine got the it's not you it's me speech the other day (well I guess technically I can't call it a speech since she sent it to him as a text message) and when I asked him what happened he said "There's nothing I can do it about it she just has issues". What I want to know is.......has any woman actually said this to a guy and been serious? I have always heard of women using that to blow guys off without hurting their feelings.
Well, you guys have "I'm just not that into you"...so we have, "It's not you, its me."
What's the problem?
