A friend of mine recently discovered that her long term bf had been exchanging sexually explicit texts with another girl.
His first reaction was to say the girl was his sister, which didn't hold up when she told him she had seen the content of the text.
His second reaction was to say she was a friend of his, and he had his room mate texting her from his phone because his room mate was in a funk due to his wife leaving him a few months ago. The reason he didn't do it on his own phone... he didn't want some girl blowing his phone up unless he knew he was going to like her.
Anywho... he quickly grabbed the phone, deleted all the texts and hid the phone.
There is no way she can know 100% for sure what the story really is but she is 99% sure he is lying. But she made the choice not to break up with him on the spot. They've been together for 2 years and have been talking about marriage, and this text girl lives all the way in fla.
Now she is being eaten up with the unclosed emotions though, and when I talk to her she says it's really bothering her. I don't even know where to start in giving her advice, my gut reaction is either leave him or suck it up and get over the jealousy.
Any thoughts?