Jealousy

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DEEKAYPEE8569

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Phina said:
A friend of mine recently discovered that her long term bf had been exchanging sexually explicit texts with another girl.

His first reaction was to say the girl was his sister, which didn't hold up when she told him she had seen the content of the text.

His second reaction was to say she was a friend of his, and he had his room mate texting her from his phone because his room mate was in a funk due to his wife leaving him a few months ago. The reason he didn't do it on his own phone... he didn't want some girl blowing his phone up unless he knew he was going to like her.

Anywho... he quickly grabbed the phone, deleted all the texts and hid the phone.

There is no way she can know 100% for sure what the story really is but she is 99% sure he is lying. But she made the choice not to break up with him on the spot. They've been together for 2 years and have been talking about marriage, and this text girl lives all the way in fla.

Now she is being eaten up with the unclosed emotions though, and when I talk to her she says it's really bothering her. I don't even know where to start in giving her advice, my gut reaction is either leave him or suck it up and get over the jealousy.

Any thoughts?
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That's not grounds for jealousy. That's grounds for unscheduled/unexpected castration.:killingme
 
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Rosehaven

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that man

He didn't do anything wrong. He was probably just trying to be a friend to her. Stop being so judgmental....he may get the urge to have an affair.
 
Phina

Phina

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Rosehaven said:
He didn't do anything wrong. He was probably just trying to be a friend to her. Stop being so judgmental....he may get the urge to have an affair.
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I don't think it was so much that he was texting another female. It's that she sent him pics of herself naked and he was calling her baby and she was calling him "Sexy" and "daddy"

I love her to death, but when it comes to guys she's dumb. She already knows where I stand on this.
 
nachomama

nachomama

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Phina said:
:lol:

Makes me wonder why he bothered... I mean the chick is all the way in florida, so what was he going to get out of it in the first place?
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How do you know she's really in Florida?

whome20603 said:
It doesn't matter if he planned on meating her in person or not, he sure was meating her via text message and that's not cool. Guess they met online? I'd venture to say this chick from Florida isn't the only one.
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:pete: You said meating...twice.

SoccerMom2 said:
If it was me i would text the girl back and say my herpes is flaring up again, then leave his ass.
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:roflmao:
 
Phina

Phina

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nachomama said:
How do you know she's really in Florida?



:pete: You said meating...twice.



:roflmao:
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She texted the girl from his cell phone. Asked her to stop talking to her bf.

The girl said "cool" and that he should have told her that he had a gf.

She also asked the girl where she lived, and the girl told her fla.
 
nachomama

nachomama

All Up In Your Grill
Phina said:
She texted the girl from his cell phone. Asked her to stop talking to her bf.

The girl said "cool" and that he should have told her that he had a gf.

She also asked the girl where she lived, and the girl told her fla.
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She better double check the number to make sure it's actually a FLA area code. :yay:
 
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