That is a healthy and normal response.... as long as your follow-through is to really move on. No more contact. No more dates. No more presents.My attitude has changed since I last posted in this thread. Less wasted energy now.
Interest in others? Cool. Time for me to split.
If you are dating someone and they indicate interest in someone else - not just random, but genuinely getting chummy and showing attraction ("what? she's just a friend....") - how do you react?
Some folks up their game and start competing against the new interest.
Others, like me, walk away and let them have at it.
Which one are you?
AGAIN this is regarding a true romantic "threat", not a real "just friends" or the cute bartender with the bare midriff.
That is a healthy and normal response.... as long as your follow-through is to really move on. No more contact. No more dates. No more presents.
RR...is there anyone on here that is completely NORMAL? I know I'm not.....I concur! It's a done deal (and has been for a little while). MUCH easier than I thought.
Now, as for that "healthy and normal" thing.....we know that I'm neither....
Gotta put the FUN in dysFUNctional!
RR...is there anyone on here that is completely NORMAL? I know I'm not.....
Normal people are people that have never had to endure life trails. They have never had to use twisted humor to cope. They have never had to do without to ensure their families had what they need. They have never had to decide which was more important, a gallon of gas or a gallon of milk.
If you are dating someone and they indicate interest in someone else - not just random, but genuinely getting chummy and showing attraction ("what? she's just a friend....") - how do you react?
Some folks up their game and start competing against the new interest.
Others, like me, walk away and let them have at it.
Which one are you?
AGAIN this is regarding a true romantic "threat", not a real "just friends" or the cute bartender with the bare midriff.
I assumed it was a dating scenario.
If it happened as a married scenario...At one time I would walk away.
But today..I would take half of everything and THEN I would walk away.
I will not compete.
Now if cheating...bitch better pray she can run faster than I can spin the dial on my safe...
Any married man who wants to see the inside of their wife’s vagina ever again doesn't flirt with other women.