Just Got My Court Order

[Toxick]

Quit feeling sorry for deadbeats;

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I could have sworn that he said that he DOES pay his child support - along with a ####load of extras.

So which part of that makes him a deadbeat?



And what exactly did he do that you feel it appropriate that his ex blocks him from communicating with his kid?

 

[nomoney]

where in the FUK do you get off calling me a deadbeat?

did I call you a deadbeat specifically? Or are you feeling a little guilty about something you'd like to discuss with us?

 

[HollowSoul]

I really fail to see how 800$ a month can cover all those things he listed for his daughter, plus a new car, plus new furniture etc.....give me a break. I pay over 800$ a month just for daycare, toothpaste, and snot rags a month

800 was just a figure i used same as the 172,800

 

[Toxick]

did I call you a deadbeat specifically? Or are you feeling a little guilty about something you'd like to discuss with us?

What you said directly implies him specifically.


You are way effing out of line here.

 

[nomoney]

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I could have sworn that he said that he DOES pay his child support - along with a ####load of extras.

So which part of that makes him a deadbeat?



And what exactly did he do that you feel it appropriate that his ex blocks him from communicating with his kid?

I'm sorry - you're right. I don't know for a fact that lugnut feels sorry for deadbeats

 

[HollowSoul]

omg. so what? he'd be paying that crap if he was still back home banging her momma ; so why shouldn't he paying to take care of his daughter even if they're no longer together?? And how the hell does he know how they pay their bills? does he get a spreadsheet from quicken every other week from them? Quit feeling sorry for deadbeats; or you may find yourself classified among them

........

 

[nomoney]

What you said directly implies him specifically.


You are way effing out of line here.

well then sue me or beat me up behind safeway or something :shrug:

 

[DoWhat]

I also pay for my daughters car insurance, for the car that I bought her.

 

[nomoney]

paying your child support.....oops..I mean paying back the state for them paying your child support does not constitute being a good father...I'm done here - as I have not ever been in y'all shoes with daddy support. I only stated my opinions as it urks the living hell out of me to see people biatching about having to pay $ to benefit their kids.

 

[HollowSoul]

Listen...
My idea was not intended to "relieve" the absent parent of and support by allowing the state to "pick up the tab"
It would be handled the same way as if the absent wasn't paying at all. ultimately resulting in jail time ect.
So it is in the best interest of the absent to pay.

 

[cattitude]

I also pay for my daughters car insurance, for the car that I bought her.

Start a new tread...completely different subject.


She should pay her own insurance.

 

[CMC122]

I also pay for my daughters car insurance, for the car that I bought her.

 

[DoWhat]

She should pay her own insurance.

You are correct.
When I gave her the car, that I bought her, she said she would pay for her own insurance.
But I have yet to see any money, and she is Daddies little girl so I don't care.
I bought the car for her.
Now she stops by just to say "Hi Daddy".

 

[Bronwyn]

Start a new tread...completely different subject.


She should pay her own insurance.

I have insurance through my job, which is much easier. Since I take him to the Doctors, it's best that I handle the Insurance too. Of course. Everyone's situation is different. If the dad is in the military and the wife is a dental technician (or whatever) it might make more sense for the father to carry insurance and get a break on his CS.

 

[vraiblonde]

He's not biatching about taking care of his daughter, he's biatching because her mother isn't.

I don't feel for him. If you think your child isn't being cared for properly, petition for custody, otherwise shut up about it.

And don't give me that crap about how fathers never get custody, because I know several who did.

 

[DoWhat]

I don't feel for him. If you think your child isn't being cared for properly, petition for custody, otherwise shut up about it.

And don't give me that crap about how fathers never get custody, because I know several who did.

I filled the gas tank on my daughters car that I bought her, before I gave it to her.

 

[cattitude]

I have insurance through my job, which is much easier. Since I take him to the Doctors, it's best that I handle the Insurance too. Of course. Everyone's situation is different. If the dad is in the military and the wife is a dental technician (or whatever) it might make more sense for the father to carry insurance and get a break on his CS.

car insurance.....

 

[nachomama]

I filled the gas tank on my daughters car that I bought her, before I gave it to her.

You are a GREAT dad.

 

[vraiblonde]

I filled the gas tank on my daughters car that I bought her, before I gave it to her.

I'll bet her mother wants to beat your ever-lovin' ass for you.

 

[RoseRed]

car insurance.....

:teehee: