Just to Vent.....sorry

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jaimommy4

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sockgirl77 said:
If that was the case, you would not be posting your drama in here.

Then you should no longer speak to your friend. That's just disgusting.
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I just needed to vent thats all. She doesnt seem to understand why I'm so mad but I dont speak to her at all. I said what I needed to say to her.
 
kwillia

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jaimommy4 said:
I meant now, I said what I needed to say to her and NOW I don't speak to her. Sorry didn't mean to confuse you.
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Thanks for clearing that up. I've been directing thoughts at your AV for that past 10 minutes and was beginning to think you were just ignoring me.
 
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kris31280

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pixiegirl said:
They were not together no one needs ANY permission. I guess I don't need "girl" code because I expect people that I'm sleeping with, dating, what have you or friends with to be, well, grownups. When you start applying "rules" to friendships and relationships you inhibit people from behaving in the manner that they want to which hides who they really are. Take you, MK and myself for example. I don't need to lay out ground rules for either of you because I expect that you care about me and will behave as such. If I pass out on the couch and you to sneak off and bang, you are a $hitty friend and he's an ass and neither of you are worth my time. One shouldn't have to lay out a "code of conduct" for friendship.

And like I told the OP, if she didn't want the ex at her house she should have shown him the door. People WILL act in the nature that is true to them. This dude was obviously a prick, she probably knew it but with the "on and off" was still "hopeful" that he would change and love her the way she wanted him to.

I'm not saying he's not an idiot or the friend isn't a slut; I'm saying the OP is being overly dramatic over a situation she should have seen from a mile away.
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... I suppose I just think of it as the unspoken girl code that need not be voiced... if you care about your friends you don't do crappy things like that.

There was lots of drama there, but that's cuz feelings got hurt.

And, for the record, if you pass out on the couch, I have no intention of sneaking off with MK to bang anything, except maybe a pot or pan to wake your ass up :lmao:
 
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toppick08

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kris31280 said:
... I suppose I just think of it as the unspoken girl code that need not be voiced... if you care about your friends you don't do crappy things like that.

There was lots of drama there, but that's cuz feelings got hurt.

And, for the record, if you pass out on the couch, I have no intention of sneaking off with MK to bang anything, except maybe a pot or pan to wake your ass up :lmao:
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:blushing:
 
Chain729

Chain729

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Mojo said:
Think about this way, you may have been trying to get back together with him but he obviously didn't feel the same about you. Just hook up with a hard hitting brotha and then ride around in a wheelchair in front of your Ex, that should make him jealous.
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:yeahthat: BTW, Mojo here is handling some of my applications for me.

jaimommy4 said:
We hadn't slept together since we came home from VA. Granted I did stay the night there with our child, but I don't give it up that easy just because he said he wanted us to be together. I'm glad I didn't.
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Did you figure that might be half the problem? I mean, unless I'm wrong, it's not like you hadn't slept with him before. :shrug:

kwillia said:
No really people... I want to know if it's okay to boink at family bbqs...:tap:
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As long as you don't share blood lines. :yay:

kwillia said:
You are telekinetic...:shocking:
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psssttt... It's "telepathic."
 
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Chain729 said:
:yeahthat: BTW, Mojo here is handling some of my applications for me.



Did you figure that might be half the problem? I mean, unless I'm wrong, it's not like you hadn't slept with him before. :shrug:





psssttt... It's "telepathic."
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Crap... wrong frequency... no wonder she wasn't answering...:doh:
 
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jaimommy4

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Chain729 said:
:yeahthat: BTW, Mojo here is handling some of my applications for me.



Did you figure that might be half the problem? I mean, unless I'm wrong, it's not like you hadn't slept with him before. :shrug:



As long as you don't share blood lines. :yay:



psssttt... It's "telepathic."
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I made it very clear to him that even though we had slept togther in the past (obviously) I wasn't gonna just give it up. If he wanted it to work then he had to prove it and so I'm glad I didn't. And if that really would be the reason that he would go and sleep with somebody else (friend or otherwise) then he obviously didn't mean any of the stuff that he said.
 
Chain729

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jaimommy4 said:
I made it very clear to him that even though we had slept togther in the past (obviously) I wasn't gonna just give it up. If he wanted it to work then he had to prove it and so I'm glad I didn't. And if that really would be the reason that he would go and sleep with somebody else (friend or otherwise) then he obviously didn't mean any of the stuff that he said.
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DAMN NEAR EVERYONE- men and women- expects it when you've given it in the past, if you REALLY want to work things out. At the very least, it's a sign that you want them the same way you wanted them before. And if you ain't giving it, they'll find someone that will. Stop expecting fairy tales and welcome to reality, otherwise known as: The Natural Order of the Universe.
 
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kris31280

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Chain729 said:
DAMN NEAR EVERYONE- men and women- expects it when you've given it in the past, if you REALLY want to work things out. At the very least, it's a sign that you want them the same way you wanted them before. And if you ain't giving it, they'll find someone that will. Stop expecting fairy tales and welcome to reality, otherwise known as: The Natural Order of the Universe.
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Heh... you don't pull any punches, do you.
 
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jaimommy4

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Chain729 said:
DAMN NEAR EVERYONE- men and women- expects it when you've given it in the past, if you REALLY want to work things out. At the very least, it's a sign that you want them the same way you wanted them before. And if you ain't giving it, they'll find someone that will. Stop expecting fairy tales and welcome to reality, otherwise known as: The Natural Order of the Universe.
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Well with our past history when we would sleep together he would get what he wanted everything would be ok and then fall apart. SO this time I didn't give into anything.
 
Chain729

Chain729

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kris31280 said:
Heh... you don't pull any punches, do you.
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Just because I love a girl, doesn't mean I won't walk away. I'm not some stupid hippy that thinks love by itself solves everything. If she even wants me to consider working things out, she better be on her knees. And people get (1) second chance with me and I tell 'em so. For some reason, they seem to forget that pretty quickly.
 
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kris31280

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Chain729 said:
Just because I love a girl, doesn't mean I won't walk away. I'm not some stupid hippy that thinks love by itself solves everything. If she even wants me to consider working things out, she better be on her knees. And people get (1) second chance with me and I tell 'em so. For some reason, they seem to forget that pretty quickly.
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"There's a danger in loving somebody too much, and it's sad when you know it's your heart you can't trust, there's a reason why people don't stay where they are, baby, sometimes love just ain't enough."

Love doesn't solve everything, but usually I'll give a couple get out of jail free cards before I call it quits... and it takes quite a bit to actually piss me off.
 
Chain729

Chain729

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jaimommy4 said:
Well with our past history when we would sleep together he would get what he wanted everything would be ok and then fall apart. SO this time I didn't give into anything.
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Then things were already over. Neither he, she or you owe any of the parties involved anything. So, stop being all butt-hurt over what happened and instead of going postal, take your lesson with some dignity. You've now learned that sometimes no matter what people say, they really aren't willing to put the work in to make things work out.
 
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jaimommy4

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kris31280 said:
"There's a danger in loving somebody too much, and it's sad when you know it's your heart you can't trust, there's a reason why people don't stay where they are, baby, sometimes love just ain't enough."

Love doesn't solve everything, but usually I'll give a couple get out of jail free cards before I call it quits... and it takes quite a bit to actually piss me off.
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he has gotten quite a few passes more than what anybody would probably ever put up with. I however am at my breaking point
 
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