Ladies: Would u prefer a man to be up front...
- Thread starter Qurious
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kris31280
Guest
ABSOFREAKINGLOUTELY! Seriously... don't drag out the process... either you're in it for the nookie or you're in it because you genuinely like the person enough to contemplate a future.
punjabigyrl
Active Member
I would like a guy to be upfront about having sex.
Chasey_Lane
Salt Life
Wouldn't *his* actions show what he was interested in? No need to have him explain it.
Qurious
Im On 1.
not necessarily.
He may see you as just a quick lay vs. someone to make his girl.
So in order for you to not waste your time and figure it out later you were just a lay, wouldn't u want him to tell u upfront without waiting to see his actions?
morningbell
hmmmmmm
Lie? I don't think so. Why would you have to lie? Ugh, I'm so glad I don't have to play these dating games, they tire me.
Chasey_Lane
Salt Life
His actions would indicate what he wants. IMO, you can tell when someone is genuinely into you and when someone just wants a booty call.
morningbell
hmmmmmm
Does it work the same for men? Do men want to know what we want before their penis gets involved?
My BF said he knew what I wanted every time I looked at him even before we went there.
Qurious
Im On 1.
kwillia
n/a
It's not that they are lying because women don't want them to be honest. They are lying because most women appreciate the honesty and chose not to be a FWB.
CRoyal
Infinite Impetus
Yeah a lot of times.. but you do have those guys who try to play up the 'nice' image and the 'I'm interested' just to get some. 'the game'
Cowgirl
Well-Known Member
alot of men are desperate.
Is this ghetto for 'drawers'?
Qurious
Im On 1.
its slang for underwear.
lovinmaryland
Well-Known Member
Exactly... I would rather a guy tell me upfront that "this" was just a FWB situation so I could either opt to go for that or not waste my time... Some men (boys really) are very convincing playing up the 'nice' image
CRoyal
Infinite Impetus
Exactly... I would rather a guy tell me upfront that "this" was just a FWB situation so I could either opt to go for that or not waste my time... Some men (boys really) are very convincing playing up the 'nice' image
amen sister.
Tell it like it is, if you wanna hit it and quit it.. be up front.
livinlf2fullest
Discreet Cougar Hunter
Its easier to be upfront, no drama, no games(well unless both parties state thats their preference) at the beginning so theres no waste of either persons time or a possible heartbreak in the future
livinlf2fullest
Discreet Cougar Hunter
Never understood the hit it and quit it, if you re with someone and enjoying each others company why stop?
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kris31280
Guest
You'd think with the whole sexual revolution and the "rules" of dating being nonexistant anymore people start to be more upfront about this sort of thing because there's less reprocussions than there have been historically.
Cowgirl
Well-Known Member
Why is there an "l" in it? Do you prounounce it with the "l?" I mean, I could understand if you said "draws," but not "drawls."