Pigskin / Kemps Not the Solution
Amazing that the Kemps are going to stand up and say their program was better just because there are problems with this one--in its first year. Obviously, Pigskin was far worse...or else a) they'd still be around and b) they would have worked out their issues after what, 20 years? I mean, if anyone would have had a program working problem-free, it would be the program that ran for 20 years, right? Ahhhh, wrong. Their issues are why the Raiders started...and I presume that when the guys started SMYFL up, it was because they didn't want to get in on the Raiders' gig but were also fed up with Pigskin.
There were days and weeks this off-season where I thought we wouldn't have youth football in St. Mary's County this year. I think our program has MAJOR PROBLEMS this year, but I can say that I'm happy my kids have a tackle season. The only part of me that wishes I had gone over and signed up with a Calvert team is the part that hears the crazy complaints, and the absurd 'threats' of planning to not show up for games cause you already know you'll lose, citing it as a fear for safety. And even worse, I've heard rumors of physical threats against other parents and coaches, and that's just a pathetic shame.
I realize we can't all get along, and the clubs will never "like" each other, etc. And really, we don't have to like each other...and we can still have a good football program.
But can't we all establish common goals and work toward achieving them...together? Can everyone just establish some discipline for themselves and before you open your mouth, ask yourself...is what I want to say going to help the football program?
Some issues that are being brought up inappropriately, may be valid issues but will never be addressed because people just run their mouth without thinking.
The season is underway...so stop looking to change rules or how teams are set up. But if you truly care, keep a list of concerns and when the season is over, attend your club meetings and be sure that your issues are going to be addressed. Your club President should then work through the system with Rec & Parks to get the issues addressed. If you have a President that isn't open to that, then you need to elect a new President or play for a different club.
Please think of your kids, your club's kids, and your opponents...and make sure that when you start, continue, or feed drama, that it's really benefiting these kids.
And if you love complaining about youth football on these forums, then start a new forum, call it Concerns with SMC Football Program, and start documenting your concerns...without names of clubs or teams or coaches...stick to the facts (and I do mean facts...not rumors), be sure that your issue is concrete enough that there actually could be a solution, and then get all your issues together and then work them out for the future of our program.