I keep thinking over the whole "country over party" thing, as though it was utterly self-evident that Trump deserved a guilty vote and every Democrat was on the side of "country" and every Republican was on the side of "party". You may recall that in the second impeachment, every single Democrat voted in favor - there was not one representative who broke with party. In the first, there were TWO.
So it's ridiculous to think it's strictly a loyalty thing. Because you can 100% count on the Dems to always vote party.
But secondly ---
It IS a party. At the end of the day, it's party and if you choose to side against the leader of your party, don't be surprised if somewhere down the line, the party says "we don't want YOU to represent us". I mean, this is generally why I oppose OPEN primaries, although we saw during THIS round of primaries exactly why - members from the opposing party crossing over to vote IN someone they think is a WEAK opponent.
If you formed a new party here, in St. Mary's County, to run for a local seat - say in the State Legislature - and the OTHER two parties decided, yeah, well WE WILL PICK your candidate - you'd be pissed, right? Why should THEY pick YOUR candidate?
Again - I will say - it is, in the end, a party and if you choose to go against them, you can still run for office - but not on THEIR ticket.
It's their party.