Man w/down syndrome dies

vraiblonde

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Vraiblonde, you can put an end to this Penn crap. Why don't you do something useful and check my ip or linked emails to my account to vouch for me or is that something beyond you.

Now, Penn, you know that IPs don't prove anything and neither do email addresses unless you have used an official one from your work or something and not a gmail or yahoo.

And I do something useful every day, so no need to be snitty with me.
 

itsrequired

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I'm pretty sure myself, and Joe have both said it was an unfortunate accident, yet most of you seem to have reading troubles. Many fo you are defending these officers actions as if anyone here is blaming the guy's death on the police. Especially the LEOs on here. Chill out, no one is blaming your brothers in blue.

So what was it Joe meant when he said the police overreacted? And you are saying we have reading problems?
 

itsrequired

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You have like 4 comments in this thread and I could say the same thing about you. Any links? Anything that is adding value to the discussion to make your point expect?

Tell us your experience with dealing with police and when they got it right and wrong (if they do, eh). Tell us your experience about dealing with DS.

Someone pointed out the statement that the Sheriff made in a previous post. Go back and look at the statement Sheriff Evan made about the deputy that crashed in to the car in Dunkirk and killed that woman.

An apology followed his comment.

So tell us how you would have handled the situation. Shoot him?

The difference between you and I is I have practical experience and have dealt with people who get out of control. You sit behind your parts desk and make the assumptions that the police overreacted. How would I have handled this? I have handled this. Maybe not the exact scenario, but similar situations with people who were challenged. I have had to restrain someone who was challenged so they did not hurt themselves or others. Police work is sometimes dangerous work and you can't control every element of every situation. This man being dead is tragic, but that doesn't mean the police overreacted as you state. It is quite possible that the police did exactly as they were trained, but this person's actions caused them to have to react.

The further difference between you and I, is I am not going to make that call until the investigation is complete and I have all the facts. I am also not going to state as fact, what one side of the event is claiming. That type of speculation is left to the uninformed.
 

vraiblonde

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He probably meant they overreacted...

It was his opinion.

He didn't say they killed the guy, and has said it was an unfortunate accident.

So you don't think that by saying the police overreacted that is placing some sort of blame on them?
 

Chris0nllyn

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So you don't think that by saying the police overreacted that is placing some sort of blame on them?

Possibly, but I don't know what goes through his head.

Of course he does, but he can't be honest with himself, let alone us.

Whatever you say, :bigwhoop:

With that being said, I'm willing to bet many people with DS get restrained every day.....they don't die. So, obviously, something is different about this case.
 

itsrequired

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Possibly, but I don't know what goes through his head.



Whatever you say, :bigwhoop:

With that being said, I'm willing to bet many people with DS get restrained every day.....they don't die. So, obviously, something is different about this case.

You are right, people with DS probably do get restrained every day. Is that always an overreaction?

You said you nor Joe are blaming the police. So what your saying if a police officer overreacts, and a situation gets out of control, it's not the the police fault. Good to know, I'll keep your thoughts in mind.
 

itsrequired

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In all it is a judgement call. I stand by assessment that they over reacted. Again, it is reasonable to think that they did not wanted to intentional harm him, but they did. Next time, what could they have done differently to handle the situation.

I will accept that they probably cuffed him to protect him from the fear that he could physical hurt someone or himself. So yes, they are to blame just as the aid is and possible the parents. What is the damage that needs to be fix, well the obvious one is better training.

Could you state exactly what they did to overreact?
 

vraiblonde

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The aide had left to go out to the car for something. According to what I read she is allowed to do this.

She may have been allowed to do it, but obviously she shouldn't have left him alone. If she wasn't actually going to supervise and aid, what was the point of her being there?
 

vraiblonde

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Maybe she's done it a thousand other times and nothing happened.

We are negligent a thousand times...until something bad happens as a result.

You could leave your toddler alone in the bathtub 10 times - then #11 is when he drowns or gets scalded with hot water. Is that the bathtub's fault or yours for playing Russian roulette?

Nothing bad ever happens until it does.

By the time she got back to her charge, the situation was out of control. So no, they probably didn't listen to her.
 

itsrequired

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We are negligent a thousand times...until something bad happens as a result.

You could leave your toddler alone in the bathtub 10 times - then #11 is when he drowns or gets scalded with hot water. Is that the bathtub's fault or yours for playing Russian roulette?

Nothing bad ever happens until it does.

By the time she got back to her charge, the situation was out of control. So no, they probably didn't listen to her.

Don't you love how people take quotes from the lawyer representing the plaintiffs in this action (I know...no lawsuit has been filed....yet!) and take what that lawyer says as gospel.
 

vraiblonde

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I don't know if she was being negligent and neither do you.

Well, yes - we both know she was being negligent. She was sent to the movies with him for a reason. I'm assuming that reason was to help him, since she was called an "aide". When he needed help, she wasn't there. That would be your basic negligence.
 

Chris0nllyn

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Well, yes - we both know she was being negligent. She was sent to the movies with him for a reason. I'm assuming that reason was to help him, since she was called an "aide". When he needed help, she wasn't there. That would be your basic negligence.

The guy had a job, and was a productive member of society.

The aide wasn;t there to hold his leash.
 

vraiblonde

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It is interesting that you apply the standard of the aid such that she was neglect without fact, but not the moonlight security guards.

Okay, so it's not a "fact" that she was an aide? Not a "fact" that she was there to be...um...aiding him? Not a "fact" that she left him alone to go do whatever she was doing besides aiding him?

Who was responsible for this man: the aide who was sent to the movies with him, or the cops?

You people are sofa king stupid, I swear.
 

MMDad

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It is interesting that you apply the standard of the aid such that she was neglect without fact, but not the moonlight security guards.

Damn Penn, that is some serious drunk posting. Come back when you sober up and try again.
 
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