Maryland Sex Offender Registry....

mainman

mainman

Set Trippin
vraiblonde said:
I think we can safely say that HF will not be coming to these forums anymore. So those of you who are waiting for him to come on and explain himself, you're going to be sitting for awhile.
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Ya think? :lol:
 
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dems4me

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CMC122 said:
You guys don't really think he's gonna come on here and say something to you do you:confused:
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I was hoping it was a mixup or something -- like maybe he was 16 and his girlfriend was 15 at the time and her parents filed charges or something... :frown: maybe not. I guess some stories just don't have two sides to them. :frown:

Vria -- did you ban him :shrug:
 
Jameo

Jameo

What?!
vraiblonde said:
I think we can safely say that HF will not be coming to these forums anymore. So those of you who are waiting for him to come on and explain himself, you're going to be sitting for awhile.
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So I guess you can ban :dork: outta GPs? :clap:
 
CMC122

CMC122

Go Braves!
dems4me said:
I was hoping it was a mixup or something -- like maybe he was 16 and his girlfriend was 15 at the time and her parents filed charges or something... :frown: maybe not. I guess some stories just don't have two sides to them. :frown:

Vria -- did you ban him :shrug:
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If it was a mix up I'm sure he wouldn't have let this thread go on so long without jumping in. And your example wouldn't count for his charges.

It's a reality dems:wink: All the hoping in the world won't change it.
 
vraiblonde

vraiblonde

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dems4me said:
Vria -- did you ban him :shrug:
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No - there's no reason to ban him. Like you yourself said, it could be a statutory thing or whatever.

Not that I want to take up for HF or anything, but you all should reread some of your posts. You sound like a bunch of hysterical witch burners. And how I can be so sure he won't be back is because...would you, after all this?
 
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dems4me

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vraiblonde said:
No - there's no reason to ban him. Like you yourself said, it could be a statutory thing or whatever.

Not that I want to take up for HF or anything, but you all should reread some of your posts. You sound like a bunch of hysterical witch burners. And how I can be so sure he won't be back is because...would you, after all this?
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I agree -- I've been flamed pretty badly on here... but nothing this bad :frown:
 
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geminigrl

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HollywoodFred said:
Obviously, it's come to light that I am listed in the Sex Offender Database. This is true.

During the period 1994 to 1998, I had many unfortunate things happen to me in my life. The most significant was the loss of my 13th month old son to liver cancer, after an unsuccessful transplant. I did not deal with the anger and grief caused by that, and things festered within my mind, and that's what triggered my offenses. They were not sexually driven, but instead were driven by anger.

Once I was arrested, I was led to my therapist, who is considered to be the best in the Baltimore area by both the court and probation systems. I started seeing him at once, not because it would help the court case, but because it was the right thing to do. Nor did I lie, or try to deny the things I did; I admitted I did them, I admitted that I knew they were wrong, but I also did not know where to turn for help.

I not only destroyed my own life, but the lives of those around me. To this day I regret that, and I always will.

Fortunately for me, everyone I encountered in the judicial system knew what they were doing, from the agent that conducted my pre-sentence investigation, to the judge that sentenced me.
It's a common misperception that sex offenders cannot recover: that's true in 1% of the cases... for the rest, it varies, and is proportional to the severity of the crimes committed.

For two and a half years I saw the therapist at my own expense, interrupted only by my periods of incarceration. I did this not because I was required to, but again, it was the right thing to do. I even went to a couple of extra sessions past when he wanted to release me, because I wanted to be absolutely sure that nothing of this nature ever happens again.

Everyone else involved received treatment as well. And although I know that is a scar that will never heal completely, at least they have the tools to deal with it.

I did my incarceration. I did my probation. I have a goal today, and that goal is to be removed from the list when they review me in 2009. All I want today is to have a somewhat normal life.

I am a better person today than I was when the offenses occured. Gone is the predjudice I used to have, because today I know what it's like to be judged unfairly. I try to help people whenever I can. I try to be the best person I can be and live my life following Christian principles. Because I was thorough in my therapy, I am no longer a danger to society... and if I ever feel like things like that will happen again, I will be taking steps to correct the problem before it becomes an issue. Were I to be convicted again, I'd be facing 25 years or more incarceration, and I have no desire to do that.

There's the truth. I don't expect anyone to understand. It's what I've done, not what I am. I will be leaving here now...I don't expect the forums will be too much fun for me anymore.
I will just go about my business, and continue to do the right thing.
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WOW is all I can say. Glad you came forward, but you still can't justify what you did, and I feel no different about you now as I did before you posted that. :shocking:
 
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dems4me

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Can those of you that wagered that he will or won't be back, please pay up... I'll pm you my paypal account

I'm still holding out for HollowSoul so that wager is still on... TIA!!

As you were... :popcorn:
 
CMC122

CMC122

Go Braves!
dems4me said:
Can those of you that wagered that he will or won't be back, please pay up... I'll pm you my paypal account

I'm still holding out for HollowSoul so that wager is still on... TIA!!

As you were... :popcorn:
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:biteme: not a death threat:wink:
 
PrepH4U

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HollywoodFred said:
Obviously, it's come to light that I am listed in the Sex Offender Database. This is true.

During the period 1994 to 1998, I had many unfortunate things happen to me in my life. The most significant was the loss of my 13th month old son to liver cancer, after an unsuccessful transplant. I did not deal with the anger and grief caused by that, and things festered within my mind, and that's what triggered my offenses. They were not sexually driven, but instead were driven by anger.

Once I was arrested, I was led to my therapist, who is considered to be the best in the Baltimore area by both the court and probation systems. I started seeing him at once, not because it would help the court case, but because it was the right thing to do. Nor did I lie, or try to deny the things I did; I admitted I did them, I admitted that I knew they were wrong, but I also did not know where to turn for help.

I not only destroyed my own life, but the lives of those around me. To this day I regret that, and I always will.

Fortunately for me, everyone I encountered in the judicial system knew what they were doing, from the agent that conducted my pre-sentence investigation, to the judge that sentenced me.
It's a common misperception that sex offenders cannot recover: that's true in 1% of the cases... for the rest, it varies, and is proportional to the severity of the crimes committed.

For two and a half years I saw the therapist at my own expense, interrupted only by my periods of incarceration. I did this not because I was required to, but again, it was the right thing to do. I even went to a couple of extra sessions past when he wanted to release me, because I wanted to be absolutely sure that nothing of this nature ever happens again.

Everyone else involved received treatment as well. And although I know that is a scar that will never heal completely, at least they have the tools to deal with it.

I did my incarceration. I did my probation. I have a goal today, and that goal is to be removed from the list when they review me in 2009. All I want today is to have a somewhat normal life.

I am a better person today than I was when the offenses occured. Gone is the predjudice I used to have, because today I know what it's like to be judged unfairly. I try to help people whenever I can. I try to be the best person I can be and live my life following Christian principles. Because I was thorough in my therapy, I am no longer a danger to society... and if I ever feel like things like that will happen again, I will be taking steps to correct the problem before it becomes an issue. Were I to be convicted again, I'd be facing 25 years or more incarceration, and I have no desire to do that.

There's the truth. I don't expect anyone to understand. It's what I've done, not what I am. I will be leaving here now...I don't expect the forums will be too much fun for me anymore.
I will just go about my business, and continue to do the right thing.
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Ok you had enough balls to come on here and post... here's some thoughts for you. Many people have emotional upsets in their life, including loosing a child. AND those people do not go out and prey on innocent children... That being said. I hope that the pain you caused your victims haunt you to your dying day. You are not worthy of any forgivness even if you did go to your "extra" sessions! I hope you have to pay your debt to society forever! (this post in no way means a threat)
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