IIRC it was a mutual thing ...
... but friends got the 3rd degree I thought Vrai was going to get out a bright light and rubber hose one night
Friends give the 3rd degree when they care about the friend! And I'm glad.
It's true, there was no matchmaking. It sort of just...evolved. I had a lot on my plate during the last 2 years, and the last thing I was looking for was a date.