I'll give you an AMEN
Ideally, man and woman become pregnant when they're ready to have children together. Next best is they become pregnant and go, "Oh well - guess we're starting a family sooner than we planned." WAY down on the list is getting pregnant by someone you barely know and wouldn't even be seen in public with, let alone marry.
But what are you going to do? I think people should be more responsible with their sexual practices - then we wouldn't have to worry about abortion and crap like that. I can't tell you the number of times I've said to a pregnant (or thought to be pregnant) girlfriend, "Weren't you using birth control?" and she replied, "The pill makes me sick and he wouldn't wear a rubber."
HOW FREAKIN' STUPID IS THAT?????
So I don't have a lot of sympathy for girls that get pregnant by some one-night stand and I don't think the guy should have to pay for that. I also don't feel sorry for some guy that impregnates his chickie and either gets stuck with the bill or gets his kid aborted.
You made you bed - now lie in it.