Men Look for Good Bodies in Short-Term Mates .....

[FED_UP]

Why not? That would add more intensity to the experience

I hear its risky, when can we try this? No water, I want to live to tell about the experience we will have

 

[ArkRescue]

You ?? no way ......

 

[TurboK9]

You ?? no way ......

Just hadn't had a chance to use that one yet

 

[Kyle]

Men look for good bodies in short-term mates, pretty faces in long-term mates

"ScienceDaily (Sep. 26, 2010) — Men who are looking for short-term companionship are more interested in a woman's body than those looking for a long-term relationship, who focused on a woman's face, according to new research from psychologists at The University of Texas at Austin."

I wonder how many billions were granted of tax-payer dollars to fund this study.

Damn why couldnt I have been born without a conscience too!

 

[Hazel]

...After a couple of months you really don't know this person...

I know that's right. I met my husband, dated for 10 months and got engaged, married a year later. More than a few months, and still too fast.

For me. Realize not everyone is the same.

 

[sweetandsassy]

When I was younger I met a guy who looked just like Alfred E Neuman, not attractive at all. He thought I was cute so he would bug me and as I got to know him I just thought he was awesome. He became attractive to me, even though my friends and others would comment on how ugly he was. I didn't give a damn because I loved him :shrug:[/QUOTE

This discussion realy does go both ways because I dated a good friend of mine once. He was good to me, his family had money and he was going in the right direction to be somebody some day but I was never physically attracted to him. Needless to say the relationship didn't last very long, but at least we were still able to be friends afterward.

 

[FED_UP]

When I was younger I met a guy who looked just like Alfred E Neuman, not attractive at all. He thought I was cute so he would bug me and as I got to know him I just thought he was awesome. He became attractive to me, even though my friends and others would comment on how ugly he was. I didn't give a damn because I loved him :shrug:[/QUOTE

This discussion realy does go both ways because I dated a good friend of mine once. He was good to me, his family had money and he was going in the right direction to be somebody some day but I was never physically attracted to him. Needless to say the relationship didn't last very long, but at least we were still able to be friends afterward.

I think this is where men surely differ from a lady, if we are not physically attracted to a lady then its just about getting what we want, one nighter, maybe two if it was good. Would not be a long term dating thing.

 

[ArkRescue]

Which proves the point that men don't have to be attracted to a women to consider her for a romp or two.

I know a guy who has strung a gal along for almost a year as if he's serious about her, but he is only playing games with her mind (says she is not attractive to him) to keep getting the beneficial romps with her. That's just so wrong.

I think this is where men surely differ from a lady, if we are not physically attracted to a lady then its just about getting what we want, one nighter, maybe two if it was good. Would not be a long term dating thing.

 

[FED_UP]

Which proves the point that men don't have to be attracted to a women to consider her for a romp or two.

I know a guy who has strung a gal along for almost a year as if he's serious about her, but he is only playing games with her mind (says she is not attractive to him) to keep getting the beneficial romps with her. That's just so wrong.



Well you really can't say it was so wrong, she benefited as well. I wonder how many paper bags he had to go through. How desperate are women to be loved and wanted? Will she down grade hersef to get the feeling she is wanted or needed or loved, its in yall nature to have to have it right. That can go both ways I guess but more so for ladies I think. I always thought that paper bag thing was a joke until I saw Christoper on Nip Tuck use one on a lady. Men are so devious for sex, I hate myself sometimes

 

[DEEKAYPEE8569]

That doesn't sound like an appropriate way to handle the situation.

First, you have to mutually decide to have; and commit to; an exclusive relationship.

After you do that; if your significant other doesn't bring it up before you do; agree to seeing each other naked. If nothing else, it's one H*ll of a new relationship jitters cure.