Men, Please Explain...

CityGrl

CityGrl

Time for a nap
I would like some honest answers from men out there.

Why is it that once you turn a guy down, they can't just let it go??? I went out with this guy ONCE and he totally went psychotic (we're talking "I'll kill myself if I don't see you again"), so I told him no more.

To this day I still get messages from him, and all he wants to do is "torture" me by saying that by not going out with him I'm "missing out."

Someone tell me how to get rid of this :loser: ????
 
K_Jo

K_Jo

Pea Brain
PREMO Member
I'll handle this one. Reply to his emails with, "We regret to inform you that we had to remove City Girl's feeding tube..."
 
pvineswinger

pvineswinger

Swinging on Vines
K_Jo said:
I'll handle this one. Reply to his emails with, "We regret to inform you that we had to remove City Girl's feeding tube..."
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Boy, EVERYONE is jumping in that handbasket!!! Ya'll are gonna be in warmer (much warmer) weather in NO time!!! :killingme
 
K_Jo

K_Jo

Pea Brain
PREMO Member
pvineswinger said:
Boy, EVERYONE is jumping in that handbasket!!! Ya'll are gonna be in warmer (much warmer) weather in NO time!!! :killingme
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I can't help it. I'm a very nice girl, but I have a really, really, really sick sense of humor. It's a gift. :angel:
 
D

dems4me

Guest
K_Jo said:
If he has a :gossip: it'll turn him on.
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I always thought the same thing... isn't there a poll on here or something about this :confused:


Eitherway, I agree with ya!


CG - don't respond to his calls or if you do, be strong and give him a warning and if he doens't quit, I'd start looking at the legal definition of harrassment etc... and whether to get the police involved.
I went through something similar... I think all girls have. I had to have my phone number changed because I was getting 40+ calls a day (yes! literally!) and then he was showing up at my apartment. Definately take action and don't let it get out of hand! :huggy: He will just keep pushing and pushing and pushing further until you put an end to it. He sounds obsessive and will only see's it as you allowing this to go on because you want to and then try to turn every scenario into you really liking him, etc.... he's wants to take a mile and he sees it as you giving it to him inch by inch.

I'm outta here!!! be safe and have a happy weekend!!! :Dance:
 
Nickel

Nickel

curiouser and curiouser
pvineswinger said:
Boy, EVERYONE is jumping in that handbasket!!! Ya'll are gonna be in warmer (much warmer) weather in NO time!!! :killingme
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:howdy: I'm bringing the sunscreen
 
C

chaotic

This is your captain!
CG,

Cut off all contact with the guy. Don't answer anything emails/return calls, cut short live phone calls, and don't acknowlege him if you see him in public. Anything you say will be interpreted as interest.

I've known a bunch of guys that do this ****. Sucks for me, since many girls I've asked out tell me (after getting burned by these types) that they don't want to get married, but I'm only at the point where I'm trying to decide whether we should have coffee or coffee and a dessert..
 
K_Jo

K_Jo

Pea Brain
PREMO Member
chaotic said:
CG,

Cut off all contact with the guy. Don't answer anything emails/return calls, cut short live phone calls, and don't acknowlege him if you see him in public. Anything you say will be interpreted as interest.

I've known a bunch of guys that do this ****. Sucks for me, since many girls I've asked out tell me (after getting burned by these types) that they don't want to get married, but I'm only at the point where I'm trying to decide whether we should have coffee or coffee and a dessert..
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If by "dessert" you mean "baby," start dating homely, childless women between the ages of 33 and 37.
 
aps45819

aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
You can have his number blocked. That way he won't be able to call you.

If he persists, tell him to meet you at the corner of 12th & G in SE for a White Power Ralley and to make sure he wears a white sheet. Odds are you won't hear from him again.
 
Ken King

Ken King

A little rusty but not crusty
PREMO Member
Tell him straight up that you have been faithfully reading the obits hoping to see his name, but you somehow knew he was a liar and you will have nothing to do with liars.
 
C

chaotic

This is your captain!
K_Jo said:
If by "dessert" you mean "baby," start dating homely, childless women between the ages of 33 and 37.
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Waiter, check please! :twitch:

Met a few of these - they tend not to hide their, um, issues too well..
 
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