Men, Please Explain...

Railroad

Routinely Derailed
I like the blocked number, call-the-police route. I think he may qualify as a stalker.

I don't know how to explain the "why" here, but I think I can predict that if he ever DOES get some lady to go steady or get married (even worse) he will be the most jealous and insecure, abusive and dangerous type. I suppose Freud would say he hates his mother.
 

Tonio

Asperger's Poster Child
CityGrl said:
Why is it that once you turn a guy down, they can't just let it go??? I went out with this guy ONCE and he totally went psychotic (we're talking "I'll kill myself if I don't see you again"), so I told him no more.
CityGrl, that kind of obsessiveness can be found in both genders. It just seems obvious in men because of the old social convention of men being one to ask women out, not the other way around.
 

Lenny

Lovin' being Texican
CityGrl said:
I would like some honest answers from men out there.

Why is it that once you turn a guy down, they can't just let it go??? I went out with this guy ONCE and he totally went psychotic (we're talking "I'll kill myself if I don't see you again"), so I told him no more.

To this day I still get messages from him, and all he wants to do is "torture" me by saying that by not going out with him I'm "missing out."

Someone tell me how to get rid of this :loser: ????


Is this that dottering old guy who freaked you out in the lobby of your building a few weeks ago?
 
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baswm

Guest
You can just try the IGNORE routine. Don't contact him, don't email him, etc. If he is not dense, he should get the hint.
 

Kyle

Beloved Misanthrope
PREMO Member
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baswm

Guest
Your right Chasey, Sad thing is some gals never tell the guy their not interested, they put him on ignore. In this case, She told him she was not interested and he continues to make a pest of himself. This guy must have no self esteem to continously embarrass himself. If she ignores him long enough, maybe he will latch on to someone else.
 

fddog

Bow wow
Show intrest, Start talking marriage and kids, Tell him you want 10 kids, And you wanna stay home and let him be your sugar daddy.
 

Vince

......
CityGrl said:
I would like some honest answers from men out there.

Why is it that once you turn a guy down, they can't just let it go??? I went out with this guy ONCE and he totally went psychotic (we're talking "I'll kill myself if I don't see you again"), so I told him no more.

To this day I still get messages from him, and all he wants to do is "torture" me by saying that by not going out with him I'm "missing out."

Someone tell me how to get rid of this :loser: ????
Can't explain stupid people, sorry. Once a woman says I don't want to see you. I tend to go away and not see her. Not that I get alot of offers for a date to begin with, but the one date I did have in the last three years she said I was too intelligent. She said she was looking for a truck driver with a low IQ.
 

SmallTown

Football season!
fddog said:
Show intrest, Start talking marriage and kids, Tell him you want 10 kids, And you wanna stay home and let him be your sugar daddy.
of course the guy hears the kid part and just starts to think he's going to hit it :ohwell:
 

Kyle

Beloved Misanthrope
PREMO Member
If you love someone, let them go. If they come back it, they're yours forever. If not, report them to Homeland Security and Immigration as a potential terrorist.
 

CityGrl

Time for a nap
Kyle said:
If you love someone, let them go. If they come back it, they're yours forever. If not, report them to Homeland Security and Immigration as a potential terrorist.

:yeahthat: :killingme
 

Tigerlily

Luvin Life !!!
fddog said:
Show intrest, Start talking marriage and kids, Tell him you want 10 kids, And you wanna stay home and let him be your sugar daddy.


I totaly agree with you. For some reason you sometimes have to turn the tables to get them to go away. :notworthy
 
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