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dems4me said:Ouch!!! Isnt there some kind of softer gentler way!
Next question is, I'm guessing there's only about another 2-4 months of this if memory serves... Right
Sorry, but she is right. There is no softer gentler way. The dog actually wants someone to be the alpha male, or it will try to be the alpha. By being forceful, you show the dog who is in charge, and it will become subservient to you and love you forever.
I took an obedience class with people who refused to use a choke chain. The dog didn't learn to respect them, and these people never learned to control their dogs. The best part was how we learned to control our dog. I don't think he actually learned anything.