Nervous Breakdown

aps45819

24/7 Single Dad
It was my daughter that got me up....about a week after the break-up and not getting out of bed that whole week, my daughter came to me and asked if we were still going on the day trip ( kids fishing trip ) the bus will be here soon she said. I told her NO, I don't feel good. I saw tears in her eyes.....my thoughts at that time were...I can do this to myself, but I can't do this to my kids. I got up and went on that fishing trip....I felt like crap the whole time, and I just kept going through the motions until the joy slowly starting coming back....it took weeks and it came back slow, very slow, but it did come back....it was one of the hardest periods of my life...
:yeahthat: Like the coach in High School said, "Walk it off"
... and like Oscar Wilde said, "The best revenge is living well"
 

nachomama

All Up In Your Grill
I'm a skeptic as you never come off as weak, stupid or controlled by any man. I'm still throwing in the :bs: flag. :shrug:

I understand. I really pondered posting in here, but I figured I'd get non-biased viewpoints here.

believe it or don't believe it, I really don't care.
 

dn0121

New Member
Wirelessly posted (Baconator 9000: Opera/9.60 (J2ME/MIDP; Opera Mini/4.2.13918/432; U; en) Presto/2.2.0)

Did you try eating cheese.
 

Chasey_Lane

Salt Life
Serious replies only please. I don't think I could take any nasty comments. :sad:

You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go. :huggy:
 

Mojo

New Member
You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go. :huggy:

What childrens story book did you fall out of :lol:
 

nachomama

All Up In Your Grill
You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go. :huggy:

Thank you. I keep telling myself this, but it doesn't seem to help much right now. :huggy:
 

tiltedangel

New Member
You may think things are bad now and your emotions are going crazy, but in time you'll see just how silly this behavior is. You were fine before him and you'll be better w/out him. He is letting you find your true love, the person you should be with. Thank him for letting you go. :huggy:


i understand where you are coming from and that is true...not being with him has opened up new doors and quite possibly there is you match out there...the only thing is don't go looking for him...he will come to you. but in the meantime..have you ever said " I don't need a man!" if you have you lied. Look at you now. Get up, get dressed, and do something you want to do..your kids need you too..reach deep down, the strength you need is there.
the tantrums and stuff are just you refusing the change this has brought about..let it in and smile.
 

JULZ

BFJ
Nacho,
I'm sorry you are going through this pain right now but it will pass! You have a great many friends to help you through this time, let them help you!

I :heart: Nacho!

:huggy:
 

nachomama

All Up In Your Grill
i understand where you are coming from and that is true...not being with him has opened up new doors and quite possibly there is you match out there...the only thing is don't go looking for him...he will come to you. but in the meantime..have you ever said " I don't need a man!" if you have you lied. Look at you now. Get up, get dressed, and do something you want to do..your kids need you too..reach deep down, the strength you need is there.
the tantrums and stuff are just you refusing the change this has brought about..let it in and smile.

Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either. :ohwell:

I want *me* back too.
 

Mojo

New Member
Aw I'm sorry sweetie. I'm always willing to help! Come by Dr. Beta's place tonight and I'll give you some special treatment to make you forget all about that big meanie! :really:

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together :smack:
 

Bonehead

Well-Known Member
Thank you. I get what you're saying and believe me, I've told myself all of this stuff too. I've been through 2 divorces and I don't remember either of them hurting like this; I got up and kept moving on - don't ever remember just "going through the motions" (I did when I was married...)

All I know is I miss him like hell and I want him back, but I know that's not gonna happen either. :ohwell:

I want *me* back too.

Sorry kiddo. That really sucks.:smoochy: Please let your friends help as much as they can.:peace:
 

nachomama

All Up In Your Grill
Nacho,
I'm sorry you are going through this pain right now but it will pass! You have a great many friends to help you through this time, let them help you!

I :heart: Nacho!

:huggy:

:love: Give that big guy a huge old hug for me. Don't ever let him go. :huggy:

Aw I'm sorry sweetie. I'm always willing to help! Come by Dr. Beta's place tonight and I'll give you some special treatment to make you forget all about that big meanie! :really:

:eyebrow: First you hit on me, then my kid, now me again? :nono:

She wants to forget about "him", not men all together :smack:

:roflmao:
 
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